11/14/2025
Confessions of a Funeral Director
Sixth generation funeral director, Caleb Wilde shares his personal journey in this non-fiction depiction about how we as a society approach death, funerals and family bereavement.
Wilde has a thorough understanding of the significance of a funeral and a way with the word which conveys to the reader a level of empathy which is not easily equaled. His stories weave together family life, religion and medical science to shine a light on present day funeral rites and traditions in a way not previously shown.
This is an honest account which captures the essence of what it means to be a funeral director. The reader gains insights into Mr. Wilde’s thought process where he shows personal vulnerabilities, his experiences with compassion fatigue and his continuing effort to focus on the here and now.
He talks about the death negative narrative, a dialogue which often normalizes extremes, and the epiphanies he experiences in coming to an understanding about death and its place in our society. Through real life stories he reframes death to a positive narrative which includes love, rebirth and heaven on earth.
Everyone has to make time to read this book which provides an introspective, insightful message about what funerals are all about. This book is not only for funeral directors.
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We are a people who deeply fear death. While humans are biologically wired to evade death for as long as possible, we have become too adept at hiding from it, vilifying it, and—when it can be avoided no longer—letting the professionals take over. Sixth-generation funeral director Caleb Wilde ...