09/07/2025
                                            Sometimes “doing it all” isn’t love—it’s control dressed up as motherhood. When we swoop in every time, we don’t just burn ourselves out—we quietly teach our kids not to trust their other parent. Attachment isn’t about perfection—it’s about safe, reliable connection.
And yes, sometimes that means letting your kid go to Costco in overalls with no shirt.
Your kids don’t need a mom who does it all. They need parents they can trust in different ways. Step back, let love expand. Building a team inside your life and partnership can be challenging when we have insecure attachment, but it can be done in healthy ways with the right support (enter me!)
👉 Which “mom-martyr” habit do you notice in yourself?