08/02/2025
Long weekends used to be hard for me.
Too much time. Too many triggers. And this unspoken pressure to be having fun. But for me, fun usually meant drinking. And drinking always left me feeling anxious, ashamed, and disconnected from who I really was.
Now, long weekends feel different.
They feel calm. Clear. Honest.
That doesnât mean theyâre always easy. I still check in with myself. I still prepare. I still make space for the messy moments. Over time, Iâve found some things that help, both in my own recovery and through supporting others on their journey.
Here are a few of my favorite tools that make long weekends feel safe and manageable:
đ¸ď¸Make a plan
Know where youâre going, who youâre with, and how long youâre staying. It helps more than you think.
đ¸ď¸Protect your peace
You donât owe anyone your time or energy. Itâs okay to say no. Itâs okay to leave early. You are allowed to put yourself first.
đ¸ď¸Stick to your routines
Just because itâs a holiday doesnât mean everything has to change. Keep the things that keep you grounded, movement, meals, rest, stillness, journaling, prayer, whatever works for you.
đ¸ď¸Stay connected
Reach out. Talk to someone who gets it. Share how youâre really doing. It doesnât have to be perfect to be healing.
đ¸ď¸Remember your why
This life youâre choosing is about so much more than not drinking. Itâs about showing up for yourself in a real and loving way. Thatâs something to be proud of.
If youâre sober this weekend, whether itâs day one or year ten, I see you. I know how hard this can be. But I also know how beautiful it becomes.
If you are not quite sober yet or youâre thinking about changing your drinking, know that you donât have to do it alone. You can take small steps and start wherever you feel comfortable. Reach out. Ask questions. I am here to support you on your journey whenever you are ready.
You are not alone. You are doing something powerful, even if it doesnât always feel that way.
Youâre choosing peace. Youâre choosing truth. Youâre choosing you.