04/03/2026
The reality check:
Once every year—usually in April—I commit to a 5-day silent meditation retreat.
I have been doing this for years now with thanks to Mindful Leader and their online retreats, which they host at various times of the year.
But my sweet spot for a 5-day retreat is April.
Each spring, I would leave my house and go to another space—always one with views of trees and easy access to walking trails. From there, I connect virtually with my meditation instructor and other folks attending the retreat. And we engage in guided silent meditation practice and group learning for 5 days.
This April I noticed that the retreat dates conflicted with an important work commitment. This is not new—there is always something else that needs my presence and attention. Every decision to step away for silence is intentional and deeply mindful of what I choose to not do in favour of turning my presence and attention inward.
Yet, it is also that intentionality and mindfulness that prompted me to defer my retreat in order to be present at work this time around.
So the reality check: My time, attention, and presence are a gift. Everyday I make many choices about who I will share or give this gift to. Stepping away is an opportunity to give myself the gift of my own time and presence. Showing up at work or any other occasion is a choice to share the gift of my time and presence with others.
My mindfulness learning and practice teaches me that I always have room to make choices and that all my choices can lead to the same outcome: A deeper awareness of the decisions I make about taking time for myself or pouring myself into purposeful work. My mindfulness learning and practice teaches me that my choices can be win-win.
Once you have awareness, it easier to follow through with meaningful actions that support one’s mental health and wellbeing.
What choices are you facing this month that seem like a win-lose but, if reframed through a mindfulness lens are ultimately a win-win?
PS: here’s a recent article from the Reyou Mindfulness Collective Blog that explains why I value silent meditation retreats. Spoiler—it’s all about repairing the container.
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