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Luella Jonk Consulting

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Luella Jonk Consulting

Self-Awareness Coach | Podcaster | Gottman Therapist | Angel Investor. I am in the business of helping people attain their visions.

I approach therapy not as simply a “one-hour a week” time together. I hope to be present with you in spirit, in your everyday lives, helping you to be reminded of the strategies we may have discussed and offer you the support you need when you are most in need of it. I want you to know that you are not alone in your struggles - whether these struggles stem from anxiety, grief, loss of identity and

self-worth, or struggling to find meaning in life. I have a special interest in working with young adolescents and young adults. I specialize in helping those suffering from social anxiety, trauma, and self-confidence. I have helped numerous clients become liberated from guilt and shame associated with previous or present behaviours. Along with specialities in treatment of trauma, anxiety and regaining self-worth, I am especially sensitive to First Nation issues. As a speech therapist and counsellor, I have worked with numerous immigrants within a multi-cultural hub. I am sensitive to the trauma and shame which First Nations peoples have endured, having visited over 15 First Nation communities and spending time immersed in their culture.

04/20/2026

Betrayal isn’t always loud.
Sometimes it’s subtle—like divided loyalty.
When emotional attention goes outside the marriage, unity suffers.

It can look like:
• Turning to a parent before your spouse
• Sharing private details with others
• Siding with a child over your partner

Marriage thrives when order is clear: your spouse is your primary relationship.
Children and family matter deeply, but they don’t replace that bond.
At its core, marriage is a shared life oriented toward God.
When that direction is clear, priorities fall into place.

Read the post here. ✨https://luellajonk.com/blog/

04/13/2026

Betrayal in marriage is not always about what you do, but about where your loyalty rests. When attention and emotional energy consistently flow outside the marriage, the bond weakens. A strong marriage is grounded in clear priority and guided by something greater than both partners.

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04/06/2026

Emotional Betrayal Begins Quietly
Trust and commitment are the walls that hold a marriage together. Emotional betrayal doesn’t start with grand gestures—it begins with small, personal conversations that cross invisible lines.

🚩 Red flags to watch for:
• Dismissive responses to your concerns
• Surprise familiarity with personal details
• Lack of curiosity about your discomfort
• Turning the issue back on you

The deeper question isn’t just about outside relationships—it’s whether trust and openness remain alive inside the marriage.

Read the post here. ✨https://luellajonk.com/blog/

03/30/2026

Emotional betrayal rarely begins with an affair.
It often starts with small private conversations that slowly become more personal than they should be.

Healthy marriages protect trust long before a crisis appears.

Read the post here. ✨https://luellajonk.com/blog/

03/23/2026

Most choices aren’t just right vs. wrong—they’re guided by love or fear.
💡 Pause and ask: Am I acting from love or fear?

⚠️ Fear often leads to avoidance, control, and short-term relief—narrowing our vision.
❤️ Love calls for truth, patience, responsibility, and trust in God—requiring courage.

🌱 Discernment grows through reflection:
Don’t rush. Ask honest questions. Notice what brings peace.
And once you choose—walk forward without looking back.

Read the post here. ✨https://luellajonk.com/blog/

03/16/2026

Discernment is rarely about drama. Most of the time, it happens in ordinary decisions about how we respond, what we choose, and where we place our trust. Over time, those small choices shape the direction of a life.

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03/09/2026

💍 Marriage isn’t about what I get—it’s about what I give.
For years, I measured love by feelings. But vows don’t bend to emotions. Marriage asks surrender, reliance, and offering—not self-fulfillment. When Christ became my center, I stopped expecting my spouse to be my saviour.

👉 If you’re discouraged, ask: Am I focused on receiving… or offering?
Marriage is not a feeling. It’s a vocation. And when I embraced that, peace followed.

Read the post here. ✨https://luellajonk.com/blog/

03/02/2026

I used to measure my marriage by how I felt. Now I try to measure it by how well I am loving. That shift has changed more than I expected.

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02/23/2026

What We Ask For

Most of us ask God for things to be fixed.
For relief. For someone to change.
For life to be easier or more predictable.

We rarely ask for wisdom or understanding, even though they shape how we live, no matter the circumstances.

Health, wealth, and status aren’t bad.
But without wisdom, even good things can become disordered.

Wisdom allows a person to think clearly, choose good over bad, and act with intention rather than impulse.

Without wisdom, responsibility often turns into anxiety, overthinking, and the need to control - often causing us to seek a diagnosis.

Perhaps wisdom isn’t what we ask for first because it asks more of us than comfort does.

Read the post here. ✨https://luellajonk.com/blog/

02/16/2026

We usually ask God for relief, stability, or for things to change. Rarely do we ask for wisdom or understanding, even though they shape how we live, regardless of the circumstances we’re given. Maybe wisdom comes last because it asks more of us than we’re comfortable admitting.

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02/09/2026

When I think of Adam and Eve, I don’t start with what went wrong.
I think of what came first: closeness, recognition, and not being alone.
Maybe that’s why their story still matters, especially when relationships begin to break.

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02/03/2026

The goal in a marriage is not a journey towards happiness; it is a journey towards purification and sanctification. Allow your spouse to make you into the saint you have always meant to be.

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Winnipeg, MB
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Opening Hours

Monday	8:30am - 7pm
Tuesday	8:30am - 7pm
Wednesday	8:30am - 7pm
Thursday	8:30am - 7pm
Friday	8:30am - 7pm
Saturday	8:30am - 7pm

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Making Lemonade Out of Lemons

You might be going through a period right now where you are constantly asking yourself “ Why me?” or “ What happened to my marriage? “ or “ I have failed being a parent” or “ I am actually stupid, ugly, etc.” and so on and so forth. Well, first of all, you are not alone, and secondly, it is NOT normal to feel this way. You should and deserve to be happy and I am confident I can bring you there once again. Really, I can. Do you remember when you were just a kid having fun? Dipping in and out of reality where the world was a great place of opportunity and wonder. The world hasn’t changed. You have. Your approach towards life has changed.

When you work with me we go towards the root reason and cause of this lack of zest in life, this feeling of hopelessness and helplessness. We go through your timeline and I listen to your story, and I retell your story back to you to make sure I understand you.

No one knows you as well as you do. Respect your health enough to make the changes you need to make now. The way you feel and think affects your health way beyond your mood. It affects your overall immunity. Don’t wait for someone else to change in your life because they won’t. It all starts with you.

Let’s make some lemonade together. I assure you - it will turn out to be profitable in a way you could have never imagined. Please go to my website to see my specialities. You don’t need to do this on your own any longer.