
02/12/2025
Picture this, your best friend, somebody that you absolutely cherish, messes up, and is beside themselves with self blame and anger and frustration and doubt. What is your response to them? Do you sit beside them and help them beat themselves up? Most likely not.
It's wonderful to treat people with love and care, but are we treating ourselves with love and care? Think of the same scenario, but instead of your best friend, it's you who messes up. Do you tell yourself that you'll be okay, that you're loved, that mistakes don't define you? Do you tell yourself that you're terrible or worthless or useless? For most of us it's the latter.
Let's learn to treat ourselves with the same love and kindness as we do our friends. If you have trouble doing this, if this is difficult for you, you're not alone. This is something that a lot of us struggle with, and if it's a big struggle in your life, it might be time to reach out and talk to somebody about it. We have to live with ourselves for an entire lives, and we have to treat ourselves with love and care.
Happy love week