12/16/2025
Beautifully said!
I may forget names, dates, or words, but I do not forget how it feels to be ignored.
I am still here. I still feel fear when things move too fast, and loneliness when people speak around me instead of to me. I still feel comfort when someone sits beside me, looks into my eyes, and doesn’t rush away.
Dementia may cloud my mind, but it does not erase my humanity. I still need love, patience, touch, and kindness — just like you do.
Please don’t disappear from me because I am changing. Please don’t assume I don’t notice. I do. Speak gently. Slow down. Be present.
You may forget what I say, but I will remember how you made me feel. 🤍🕊
A note for all of us:
A person living with dementia is still a human being with feelings, needs, and a deep hunger for connection.
They need to be seen, heard, spoken to with respect, and met with patience. They need time, eye contact, reassurance, and love — not rushed words or quiet avoidance.
Small acts of kindness can ease fear, restore dignity, and remind them they still belong. How we show up matters more than we realize. ✨
✍ With love and patience, Mitra!
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