04/03/2026
She would be turning 6
For those of you who don't know, I started this outreach after my daughter, Eve, passed away on the same day she was born. It was a way to distract myself from the pain and helping others made me feel some light in the darkness. Every April is full of mixed emotions for me. Eve's birthday is April 19th, mine is the 21st. When I had Eve, I almost died the same day as her, I don't talk about that part all the time, I fear people will think I'm being dramatic. But when the dr tells you if you hadn't been in assessment at that exact moment you were, where something happened to make them realise more was going on and rushed me to the OR, I would have died too, I take their word for it. Our birthdays so close together brings strong emotions, grief over losing Eve and her not being here but also greatfulness that I am still here and able to enjoy life. It's a mix of sadness and celebration.
One way I find it easier to cope is to buy gifts that I would have bought Eve if she were here on her birthday and Christmas and giving them to little girls in remote northern parts of Canada. This year she would be turning 6. I will be again purchasing gifts as well as accepting any gifts or finances for Eve's birthday gifts and plan to ship them on her birthday.
If you would like to contribute to Eve's birthday gifts, please don't hesitate to connect with me :) you can fill a whole box or just pick up items and I will go through all the items and divide them up into however many boxes we can fill. I like to always cover the shipping for these boxes, to me it seems rude to ask for shipping on a free gift amd want to make sure everyone has an opportunity to get a gift, not just those who can afford shipping.
If you would rather shop online and want some ideas, I have again made a wishlist on Amazon that will ship the items directly to my place. If you are interested in that, here is the link
https://www.amazon.ca/hz/wishlist/ls/36OGAQFKIZYVF?ref_=wl_share
I will need all gifts by April 19th.
Thank you to every one of you for keeping this outreach going and blessing so many people and spreading light and love.
Edit to add: if you want to drop off gifts, that is also very welcome, just note I have moved to Princeton/Burford area. Message me for address of needed.