11/25/2025
✨ Therapy Thoughts Tuesday ✨
This week we’re diving into a sneaky pattern so many of us learned early on:
Abandoning your own feelings the moment someone else gets upset.
Ever notice how fast you jump into fixer mode?
How quick you are to smooth, soothe, repair, or carry emotions that were never yours to hold?
Maybe you’ve taught yourself to keep the peace…
even when it costs you your peace.
Here’s the truth:
This is okay. This is learned. This is human.
And it’s absolutely something you can relearn.
At FIVE3 Therapy, we spend a lot of time helping people untangle emotional responsibility.
what’s yours, what’s not, and how to stay with you even when someone else is dysregulated.
You’re allowed to hold onto yourself.
You’re allowed to feel your feelings while others handle theirs.
And you’re allowed to build boundaries that support your nervous system, not drain it.
We’d love to support you through this work ...you don’t have to unlearn survival patterns alone.
*Disclaimer: The content shared here is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional clinical expertise or medical advice. Always consult a registered therapist or healthcare provider for personalized care.*