01/13/2026
✨️Therapy Thoughts Tuesday ✨
Ever notice your brain immediately jumps to the worst-case scenario?
You’re not being dramatic.
You’re not “too negative.”
You’re not broken.
Your nervous system is doing what it was trained to do: survive.
When you’ve lived through unpredictability, loss, or emotional whiplash, your body learns a clever (but exhausting) strategy:
👉 If I expect the worst, I won’t be blindsided.
Preparing for loss becomes a way to feel in control.
Catastrophizing becomes a form of self-protection.
Your mind says, “Let me go there first so it hurts less later.”
The catch?
Your body doesn’t know the difference between imagined danger and real danger...so it reacts as if the worst is already happening. Over. And over. And over again.
This isn’t just a thought pattern.
It’s a nervous system habit.
And habits can be unlearned with safety, support, and practice.
*Disclaimer: The content shared here is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional clinical expertise or medical advice. Always consult a registered therapist or healthcare provider for personalized care.*