04/04/2022
There are SO MANY fake promises diet culture makes us 😮
We will be happier, more accepted, more disciplined if we diet and lose weight. There are several reasons we may continue to engage in these behaviours, even if we know they don’t work or are harmful.
Let me start by saying again that everyone has body autonomy 💚 Dieting is an inherent part of our society and choosing to engage in dieting behaviours makes sense as we continuously receive these messages.
Engaging in diet culture does provide some benefit.
For many, especially those living in larger bodies, it is EXPECTED that you are dieting and actively trying to become smaller. Society is more forgiving than if you choose not to.
It can also be a sort of social bonding, especially for women 👯♀️ Many women have tried a diet or behaviour to shrink themselves, so it is something to connect with other women about. It can actually be isolating to decide to NOT engage in these behaviours! I know among my own family and friends, the topic of weight loss and dieting comes up frequently, and almost everyone shares their tips or experiences.
It can also give us a sense of control, especially if we feel out of control in other areas of our lives 💆🏻
Diet culture also promises happiness. "You’ll be happy when you lose X pounds!"
However most of these promises are LIES 🙅🏻♀️ If you lose weight, it will never seem enough and there is always the stress of “what if it comes back?”
You can achieve many of the things discussed above through other means that are healthful rather than harmful 💪🏼 Dieting and weight loss will not make you happier. This needs to come from inner mindset work.
Choosing NOT to engage in dieting behaviours will lead to reduced stress, as well as freed up mental energy and space to do the things you enjoy and spend time with those you love 💕
The good news is that you can acknowledge that dieting is not going to work and still feel a desire to lose weight. However if you can try to put this on the back burner, and focus instead on how you are FEELING, you can make improvements in your diet and overall health that are sustainable, fulfilling, and not restrictive 😃