
02/11/2024
When we say, “That’s just how I am,” we could be signaling that we’re unwilling to reflect on our behaviors or work on becoming better versions of ourselves. It can shut down meaningful conversations or avoid taking responsibility.
💡 What’s more helpful: We all have natural tendencies, but we’re also capable of growth. A willingness to evolve isn’t just powerful—it’s attractive. It shows courage, self-awareness, and a commitment to improving our relationships.
✨ Growth Mindset Shift: Instead of “That’s just how I am,” try asking:
• “Why am I like this?”
• “How does this impact others?”
• “Is there a part of me that wants to grow in this area?”
🌱 Change is possible and appealing. It starts with reflection and the desire to become our best selves. 😎✅⛳️Your awareness and willingness to evolve is definitely more attractive!