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When you open Tiktok sometimes, you will see all these Tarot readings and sometimes hear things like, "the tower card"😁 ...
16/10/2025

When you open Tiktok sometimes, you will see all these Tarot readings and sometimes hear things like, "the tower card"😁 . When you have a bit of knowledge about tarots, you know it's not a good card or so it seems . Tower moments mean that the universe is intervening to shatter certain things in your life to teach a lesson you're refusing to learn.
When your life comes to a standstill, where you're served with or serve divorce papers or that person you've grown to love leaves you or you find out they're cheating, or you loose that job that was your source of security, or you get betrayed or loose a pregnancy after wanting to get a child for so long, or like the biblical job, you loose everything due to a "storm", that's the shattering process or a tower moment.
Life is filled with illusions and it's our attachment to things, people and places that cement these illusions or cause them to be some sort of foundations of our lives that makes the universe intervene to shatter them because the foundations are not set in stone or authenticity.
This is because the universe thrives on authenticity... Let me explain something about the concept of authenticity with regards to the universe... Your subconscious desires are your authentic desires, so even if you don't have what you desire but you embody that future self, the universe bends to that reality and gives you the things you desire because that's who you really are , but it's inauthentic to act humble because you don't have the things you desire yet , so it'll shatter that illusion in order to bring your desired reality. This is very counterintuitive because of what we've been taught but it's true. Anyways I'll probably create a post about authenticity with the universe for better understanding.

After you go through this first process of shattering as established about abandonment wounds, where you loose everything, the second stage of abandonment is withdrawal. Withdrawal symptoms especially when abandoned by a romantic partner presents itself like a drug addiction. In a previous relationship where I was abandoned at my lowest by a man I'd grown to love and trust, I developed withdrawal symptoms. He was no go good for me, he's not good for any woman BTW but I craved him. I craved him so bad that I could have done anything to have him call or text me. I didn't want food or anything, I wanted him. It was an illusion of love I was craving and the destruction of the relationship happened specifically so that I should center and focus on myself.
We have to know that no matter what our brains tell us due to imbalanced endorphins is not true, the man returning or telling you he'll not cheat again is a lie.
Your life was still going to crash even after you had that baby and you may be faced with worse problems.
Like in my case, we were working towards having a kid together and I wasn't earning a lot. He was also never a provider and I would have been stuck raising a child inside deep suffering. A relative told me I should be happy I dodged a bullet because my child and I would have been stuck drinking garri with salt 😂😂😂.
That breakup, especially when you're financially dependent on your partner happened because you subconsciously desired to be financially dependent from he or she. You can trick the universe to bring you your true desires, but you can't trick it to see you as humble or small when you desire to be big or known!

The job that fired you is giving you an opportunity to create a job for yourself or get something better where you're treated better or with respect.
But when these occur, you end up craving the very thing that might end up destroying you.
There's this popular white stone , we call it Calabar chalk where I'm from. I used to be so addicted to eating it. As someone who studies their bodies, I noticed it helped a lot with the ulcer problems I used to have and it curbed my appetite greatly even though it prohibited me from stooling normally and it drained my blood like a vampire and also enhances fibroids and causes high inflammation. The irony is that when you're low on iron or blood shortage, your craving for this chalk is heightened and you can't help but eat more, (pica) thereby increasing the blood shortage. I had to be donated blood before surgery because the percentage in my body was lower than what is required for surgery to be successful. Thankfully, I lost the appetite for it from after surgery till date but it was a long time coming.

That's how we look to the universe, staying in situations that are of no good to us and we get those tower moments. The universe knows if it leaves us to stay in those situations, we will rot,so it brings in the destruction or storms to clear away what is not good for us and the pain we feel during this withdrawal is just our addiction to them, not the actual loss of anything. I know it hurts to loose a pregnancy but when this happens and you accept that it may not have been the right time, you'll get a confirmation from the universe why, the process of going through it at the moment is what seems to be the most difficult but healing is possible still.
After the withdrawal process, we enter into rage.
To be continued

© Ελλα

Higher Dimensions There have been instances where I've felt like I don't belong to this world simply because I used to b...
14/10/2025

Higher Dimensions

There have been instances where I've felt like I don't belong to this world simply because I used to be misunderstood. I think if anyone asks me about my biggest struggles in life, I'll say it was about not being understood no matter how clearly I communicated. It wasn't because I was autistic and neurodivergent as some professionals suggested. I don't like labels so I choose to not operate based solely on those. It was just a matter of frequencies. I'll come back to this.
Last week, a former client reached out about what has been happening to her, post-therapy. The first thing I've come to notice is that most of my previous clients either get a new job a raise or start a business or their business grows tremendously. The first thing she got was an opportunity where Africans were not opportuned to work in. Later on, she started having dreams and synchronicities everywhere. Later she would find coins rampantly and cats and birds would just come around her.
Then she said when she closes her eyes, she can see geometric shapes and she even drew one and sent , she also is able to close her eyes and see auras, flowers , people and other events ; things she only used to read about from other people. She said she belonged to a group on Facebook where a lot of women shared their spiritual gifts and she used to be awed by their stories and never thought that she had it in her. I told her she was clairesient. She doesn't remember this but I had once asked her if she thought she had any spiritual gifts and she declined.
The aspect of closing her eyes and seeing geometric shapes , closing her eyes and seeing flowers and beautiful colors, looking at people and seeing auras when she couldn't before is a return to self after lifetimes of her gifts being dormant and this is her being reactived but it took a lot of mental reprogramming. Her frequencies have changed and it's very beautiful to behold.
As a child, everything that happened to me, the abuse, the trauma and everything in-between were just tests from the universe on how gifted I am and playing small is what dragged in projection. As a matter of fact, playing small is why people seek to make me small because I am not meant to be small. I mean, I wasn't even created small. I was seeing people, events and strange beings even before I healed.
I had it in me all this while and I let the world condition me into who I wasn't and only when I stepped into my power could I explore the good things the universe had in-store for me.
I usually didn't resonate with my kin because I wasn't vibrating on the same frequency as them, hence the many misunderstandings.
Now that I'm fully intune with my higher self, it makes sense why I never fit in. And when you continue to evolve, you'll realize that you no longer resonate with certain messages, you don't like certain places , foods and things and your body will automatically reject them. If you decide to be stubborn, you will be sick till you change the environment and accept your new reality. Even the house you live in and community will reject you because you no longer belong there and it doesn't matter what you have in your pocket, when you decide to follow the inner voice, the universe will provide solutions. A few trusted people around me can attest to this.
I'm here to say that therapy is not the end of it all but it's the best place to start because there are limitless possibilities when you step into your power, you'll realize that you had gifts that were laying dormant for centuries.
I always tell this particular person that she has not explored a mustard seed's worth of her powers because she even wakes up sometimes with meditation mantras on her mouth that no one taught her. I don't even want to go further about her school fees abroad and courses that she hadn't paid for but she has been given access to, the possibilities abound and even I am awed.
When she wanted to thank me, I told her it was all her and I just only helped to point the light. This is what therapy is supposed to do to you, show you the infinite possibilities and take you out of the loop.
You see how she did this without the help of a man? Yes because she took a chance on herself
We are really creators and what sets us back is the fact that we have been so conditioned to think that the power to change our lives lies in others, it starts with us that's why it's said that God helps those who help themselves.
When you let your mind change your perception of past events and consciously choose to believe you can do things, sit back and watch how the universe corroborates this by showing you limitless possibilities.
Start where you are today and become co-creator with the universe!

© Ελλα

"Have no other Gods except me"You know how we have been fooled to believe in the literal meanings of the Bible and fail ...
12/10/2025

"Have no other Gods except me"

You know how we have been fooled to believe in the literal meanings of the Bible and fail to see that it's a book filled with allegories, prophecies and metaphors.
Like the concept of "I am" being a manifestation prompt and even a tool for healing. "I am the I am" meaning whatever you want, you can become. That's why when you start your spiritual journey, you learn rituals like mirror magic" where you can look at yourself in the mirror and say "I am beautiful, I am wealthy" and it'll become your reality when there's no doubt.

I'm going to ruffle a lot of feathers with this one...you shall have no other Gods except me simply means "do not put anyone above me" me being yourself!
You shall have no one you love more than you love yourself because you're the most important person to you. Doesn't mean you can't stay loyal to anyone else or a relationship but it means you have to be the first person you prioritize and because we have been taught herd mentality or moving in packs, we sometimes are forced to stay loyal to people who abuse us.
We stay in friendships because of our collective hate against someone else even if they've done nothing to us and we stay in families that are beyond toxic because the world taught us to 'be-long'.
Belonging simply means "to go along with,” “to have proper relation to,” or “to be suitably connected to something. So belonging means going along with something even if it goes against your values.
I've seen too many people conform to so many things in all my lifetimes that makes me know I was wired this way for a reason.
Fitting in a box box takes away our authenticity.
Each human is a code, we all have a purpose for why we came back or were created, it wasn't only to heal from karma but to unlock certain things that stay hidden till we stand in our true power.
It's very difficult to accept what I'm saying because people need support but your biggest source of support is your nervous system, it either makes or breaks you. When your nervous system is regulated, you will know that you don't need anyone to show you your power, you will let your instincts guide you even if fear rears its ugly head!
So the aspect of people seeing other people practicing their spirituality and stepping in with their christian views about having no other gods except me is just them screaming that they don't know what god they're worshipping and it's still not anyone's job to try to teach them about it, they have to crash or go through the shattering process before the deconstruction process begins.
That's why there's too much religious abuse, it happens so we can find out true power but most people don't know how to look beyond their pain that's why they stay in abuse, become their abusers or die without ever fulfilling their life's purpose!

This is the gospel for today 🤌🏾

© Ελλα

Shattering (One of the stages of abandonment)Why I always say everything that happens to us happened for us. This is a c...
11/10/2025

Shattering (One of the stages of abandonment)

Why I always say everything that happens to us happened for us. This is a concept that many people find hard to accept because of the "hows" or how the things happened. I read a beautiful book that narrated the story of a little girl whose father took her to a forest and put her on a large rock to wait for him while he ventured into the inner most dangerous parts of the forest but never came back for her.

She waited till nightfall and fear gripped her when she realized she was alone in the wilderness and had no one coming for her. She had to find ways to survive. She started learning how to navigate the forest day by day, escaping dangerous animals and traps till she eventually found a path and found her way back home, happy to be safe but when she peeped through the window, she was shocked to see her entire family, including their father and mother and siblings living happily without her.
She realized that she wasn't wanted and had to go away, she couldn't even enter the house and couldn't hold them accountable, she knew she had to continue surviving alone, this will leave indelible scars on her heart; eventually she will face new people and situations, hate herself and become a shell of herself because of all the abandonment wounds inflicted on her by the very people who were supposed to protect and love her. As time went on, an older, beautiful lady took her by the lake to help her meet with a swan from a nearby lake who taught her how to love herself and nurture that little girl back to wholeness.
This is what abandonment looks like. It happens in stages,the first of which is what happens when our parents abandon us like letting us be raised by other relatives or just neglecting our needs as children.
The little girl carried on with life as a wounded human and couldn't communicate well , abide with her peers nor even recognized love when it came around. She met a boy she liked but she didn't know how to receive it properly and ended up hurting him. She needed help and that's when this older lady took her to meet the swan. Her life came to a standstill because she wanted to learn to love the boy without hurting him.
This standstill is called the shattering process. Shattering occurs to everyone of us when we loose a job, we get our hearts broken, we loose a parent , etc.
It happens because the universe knows that we can't keep living the same way we were and it brings the storm to shatter every false reality. It's a painful process because you have to face yourself. You will realize you must sit with you and get to know you on a whole different level.
Shattering is only just one of the levels of abandonment, I'll be writing about the other stages in subsequent posts because this is getting too long.

But just know that when your life is in shambles and you feel like you can't go on, that's the universe trying to clear the debris you have wrapped around you. You can decide to let go and heal or continue with the repeated loops.

© Ελλα

Humility I've always had some sort of confidence and self sufficience that didn't stem from me having anything material,...
09/10/2025

Humility

I've always had some sort of confidence and self sufficience that didn't stem from me having anything material, in simple terms, I've always had self confidence that didn't come because I had more money, looked more beautiful, felt more intelligent or was doing better than others. It came from within, a certain reassurance that I was unique and no mistakes were made when I was created. However, I also developed some sort of inferiority complex due to me being consistently brought down by people who were obsessed with "humbling" me. I wasn't cocky or anything, I just have never seen the reason why I needed to be compared to any other individual on earth because we were not created , nor will we ever be the same.

So it's still a foreign concept when I see people trying so hard to make me or other confident people feel like we're not being "humble" enough! Anyone obsessed with trying to see the humility in others is someone who lacks self confidence or has some sort of inward shame about something they don't like about themselves and because they can't see it in themselves, they try so hard to make those who are confident in themselves to feel small. It's all an ego trip. I will die on the hill that people who feel superior to others are suffering from inferiority complex.
Let me tell you the mentality behind wanting or seeking humility from people:

They feel that if they help you in one way or the other, you should be at their beck and call. You shouldn't challenge them when they're saying something that doesn't align with your values. You should remain grateful and silent but never grow above them.

Some are people who will look at your physical qualities and decide that you don't deserve certain things; they can term you an ugly bįtch and look down on you when you love yourself because to them, you don't deserve to be loved by anyone because you're not beautiful enough. Dare you not live life loudly, they'll rush to say you're not humble.

Others just think you should stay in struggle or survival mode and will not help you simply because they think you'll be measuring up to them when you're no longer begging for handouts.

Some will underestimate you when you're silent and observant and think you're not humble when you assert yourself in ways that seem challenging to them. When people find out that your silence doesn't mean stupidity, they try to humble you by saying you're arrogant or too full of yourself!

In romantic relationships, men are obsessed with humbling women and other patriarchal queens are obsessed with humbling women whose auras are intimidating.

The final one is people who mock other people's follower count 🤣🤣🤣🤣. If I have 200 followers and you have 50.000 , it doesn't mean I shouldn't post my content or thoughts. My follower count has nothing to do with the message I'm trying to pass across and I see it as stupidity when someone expects that the page with a smaller following shouldn't be assertive simply because of the number of people following them. As a matter of fact , many influencers are content thieves and I've seen it in real life playing out severally when these people steal ideas from smaller accounts and claim it to be theirs. You have to have a certain level of low IQ to be using that quotient as the reason why someone should be humble. If I want to ignore you, I'll do that because you're not worth my energy,not because your followers are fewer, make it make sense!

Humility, in all simplicity, means I know that I am not better than anyone else but also confident enough to know that I am unique in my own ways. Being confident and happy or contented never sits well with people who think they're better than you. Anytime I see or hear someone trying to humble another in the ways cited above, I conclude you lack sufficient self love and are projecting.
Go heal.

© Ελλα

What's your life path number? Are you a fan of numerology? Check your life path number below to see if you're in or out ...
09/10/2025

What's your life path number?
Are you a fan of numerology?
Check your life path number below to see if you're in or out of alignment

Some people will never forgive you for what they did to you and they are going to either try to recruit more people to h...
07/10/2025

Some people will never forgive you for what they did to you and they are going to either try to recruit more people to hate you or change people's perceptions of you to mask their character or what they've done to you.

This is why it's important to be shameless. The baseline; the root of every smear campaign by narcissists and flying monkeys is to make you ashamed. When you're not filled with shame, nothing can really get to you like that.
When you become shameless, you've conquered most of your life's problems because no one can make you feel like you don't deserve a seat at the table of abundance!

In astrology, there are houses that show hidden and open enemies! This means you might know your open enemies ;lthose who show their open dislike of you whilst there are those whom you don't know; aka hidden enemies. They are usually disguised as friends, partners , colleagues and even family members who might claim to like you till they're forced to reveal their true feelings towards you or you discover in ways that are unpleasant.

Nowadays, when I see certain placements in astrology, I know that the person has experienced too many narcissists in most relationships. I'm sometimes awed that they even survived a group of friends because some hidden enemies hate, plot and even kįll.
I have been doing a little research on documentaries on the murders of young girls by a group of their "friends" and was fascinated by how much similar their placements were. These were people who were bullied and lured into their deaths by trusted groups of people.
Even if you don't know astrology or have not had your charts read, all you need to do is look back at some of your past experiences and if the pattern described here has been repeating itself where you discover that a group of friends keep ganging up on you or gossiping even when you do nothing, there lies your lesson!
You have to learn to stand in your own power. It shows that you have the ability to stand alone and you also have to learn to be discerning of people, regardless of what they show you when you first meet.
We all have an inner voice that tells us the truth but we are sometimes focused on external noises and miss the warning. When your body or instincts tell you that someone is wrong for you, heed to it!
When you learn to stand in your power and listen to your inner voice, you will learn that it's more important to have a few quality friends than a quantity of people who don't wish you well . You will learn that you're a mirror that shows people that they're inauthentic and need to put in the work to integrate their shadow.
You'll also realize that you didn't have to internalize how these people treated you because your authenticity and intergrity is triggering for people who pretend to be what they're not!
While I always say astrology, human design and numerology are all good maps to chart our lives, nothing beats the voice of your own soul and you have to know that what that voice says to you might look crazy for everyone except you. You don't need anyone to accept that, you just have to accept it and move on!

© Ελλα

Common phenomenon There are people that want to stay attached to you but who refuse to grow and it's very important to b...
05/10/2025

Common phenomenon

There are people that want to stay attached to you but who refuse to grow and it's very important to be able to discern this.
We have all seen how when women who were doing well for themselves started a relationship and put their lives on hold to help a man suddenly stopped flourishing whilst the men kept growing, they didn't invest continually, they were comfortable in their mediocrity. We all know how this turns out, he either leaves or cheats in ways that are beyond imaginable.

But this phenomena is not only limited to romantic partnerships. I have been in circumstances where friends I was helping left me when they were growing and it hurt because I stayed the same. Maybe it was how they left or treated me but I wasn't growing, I needed to be left!
And no, this isn't only limited to growing financially, you could be growing mentally and your beliefs no longer align with your best friend's.
It doesn't have to make anyone bitter or resentful but most people don't know how to take this as a learning opportunity, even if the friend just seemingly ghosts you without explanation!
Does it hurt, yes but will you be fine if you learn your lesson? Also yes! But I have found myself constantly in the position where people want to punish, shame or hurt me simply because I wanted out of a relationship or friendship, even to the point of wishing me death when I decided to grow out of certain habits or beliefs and friendships! It's not new, I see it everyday when my clients come to me for help!
Let's be serious, wishing someone death or wanting to see them locked up, embarrassed or shamed is so childish and I feel sorry for people who go through this. It's more common than ww think and this is not talked about enough!
Growth is necessary, everyone should evolve and everyone should be aware that evolution comes with a lot of shedding, of old beliefs, of old especially circles and cycles, of old stories and stale relationships. If you're in a relationship and you're not allowed to share your unharmful truths because you're afraid of hurting another, you need to leave immediately!
If you can't be silent without others misinterpreting it for being antagonizing, you need to set healthier boundaries or leave!

No one human has to be in control of another adult's life even if they're your parents, so trying to control others through coercion,guilt tripping, triangulation and shame is something evolved people should not be caught doing!
Another human's growth can be a catalyst for your own growth, no one knows everything!
When a friendship ends no matter how badly you were left, it's not a means to go recruiting flying monkeys
It's an opportunity to start or continue with shadow work. Yes, we heal but everyday, life presents an opportunity for us to evolve into an even better version of ourselves if we can stop playing the victim!
The fact that someone doesn't align anymore with certain friendships, relationships or places simply means they're aligning with the right paths set for them by the universe and if you feel their behaviour hurt you, the best thing to do is take your power back from them by not giving them any attention! And I can't emphasize this enough.
Unfortunately,most people will rather resort to childish behavior by trying to inflict pain or hurt the other, adding to their karma and refusing to grow.

When you plant a seed, you expect it to grow and start bearing fruits. That's how life is. Even if a caterpillar goes through it's developmental stages with other fellow caterpillars, it eventually flies away and doesn't depend on the wings of its other friends to fly. They're all beautiful and unique in their own way and the caterpillar that's yet to develop its wings doesn't seek revenge on the one that's already flying, if anything, it learns.
Humans on the other hand, learn from triggers and feel everyone is out to hurt them and they rather hurt others than heal.
I can't emphasize how important enough it is to stay in and be contented with your own energy. If you spend time studying yourself and loving yourself in new ways, you won't notice who has left or who stayed because you know you are enough!

© Ella

If  you can laugh at your mistakes, you're winning!!! Here's me laughing at myself 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾We have used the word pick-me s...
04/10/2025

If you can laugh at your mistakes, you're winning!!! Here's me laughing at myself 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

We have used the word pick-me so much and exhausted it to the point that many people are now allergic to being pick-mes...kudos👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 but do we know that there's a subtler and even more dangerous form of pickmeism that still borders in our female communities? Yes being male-centered is still being a pick me! It's like the covert version of pickmeism.
Truth is, we don't know that there are subconscious ways we still CENTER men which is another form of being a pick-me but we're not ready for that truth yet. This is why I always tell people to be discerning even with content they consume because of gullibility or loyalty.
So here are a few signs of male centering instead of yourself.
And no, I'm not taking jabs at anyone but these are truths that I keep uncovering even about myself. In my ignorance, I was also a male centered woman but growth and healing fixed that and I am sharing as I see fit! This is to let you know that everything you do for men ,you can do for yourself, PUT YOURSELF ON A PEDESTAL. BE THE CENTER OF YOUR OWN LIFE! You didn't come here to please men.
Anyways, here we go👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

You define yourself through men’s opinions. I mean, been there, done that! I used to think if a certain kind of man approved of me or accepted my views, then I would be more likeable.

Your self-esteem rises or falls depending on whether men approve, desire, or validate you. News flash, your value doesn't decline based on how anyone else sees or perceives you, it does when you devalue yourself.

You prioritize being chosen over choosing.
😂😂😂 Remember the post I made about, "he chose me, he don't want you?" Of women competing over very ancient priggs? Well, what screams male-centering more than that? And to think it was women in their fifties hopping on the trend!

Comphet! You focus on whether men want you, instead of asking yourself if you even want them. I might talk one day about comphet but everyone is free to do their own research about it!
Compulsory heterosexuality... google it!

Your life goals revolve around relationships,
marriage, being a wife, or being desirable 🤌🏾🤌🏾it feels like your ultimate purpose is to look good for and be with them, even at the cost of your own dreams. I am guilty of putting my life on hold for a man but we live and we learn! I was gisting with a friend about a conversation between my landlord and his wife. He was insisting that he wants his daughters to wash his clothes so that in their marriages, they would be able to wash their husbands' clothes well. In his house, his wife doesn't but he's trying to control her through their children. Always up to no good!

You over-accommodate men!
Constantly adjusting your personality, boundaries, and preferences to keep men comfortable. I'm grateful Shera taught me the sprinkle sprinkle lifestyle but I found myself and stopped trying to appeal to anyone but myself. If I feel good about what I am wearing, it doesn't matter who thinks what, so long as I'm neat and presentable. Btw, have you noticed that white people's old money dressing style is different from black people's old money attires? I get it, we're evolving but we're still melanated people and it's okay to embrace your true nature.

You value male presence over female bonding
You’d rather be around men because it makes you feel validated, and you downplay the importance of female friendships. We're all victims of toxic female friendships but as someone who was not healing, I was the problem attracting same kinds of friendships, once I healed, I attracted friends whose values aligned with mine and it's beautiful over here. Any stress, I vibrate higher away because I know the universe is abundant. That's how it should be, I believe!

You let men dictate your morals and or beliefs, you adopt their idealogies about religion, politics, sexuality etc. Even if he jokes at the expense of a woman, you laugh about it because he's not directly addressing you! I have been there. I remember where I first met an ex . It was an exclusive men's only club but they could invite women as guests. That particular day, I was the only woman there. Try it as I may, I couldn't evade all the misogynistic crap they were blabbering. All their conversations were centered on how women behave and their place in society, yes I was still a feminist but I was being compliant to be likeable. Now, looking back, I cringe!

Your emotions depend on men’s actions.
A man ignoring your texts or giving you attention can make or ruin your whole day. We all need a friend who will look at you with disgust when they find out your mood is shifting because of a man😌. Like really let their faces turn sour and ask you if you're crying because of a man 🤌🏾🤌🏾🤌🏾

You center conversations around men.
Listen, this is a very tactical one, even talking too much about what men do against women is male-centering.
If most of your discussions or content and convos; whether with friends or online circle back to what men think, do, or want, you're doing subconscious male-centering.

If your self-image is tied to attractiveness to men or
you feel valuable mainly when you’re pursued, complimented, or in a relationship, news flash!

Lastly, if you struggle to see life beyond romance
or you’ve never pictured a future where fulfillment doesn’t come from being with a man, I'm sorry my dear, you're not centering yourself enough!
Now that I'm where I am, I sincerely understand why some people marry themselves 😂😂😂.

Being male-centered is a symptom of patriarchy it’s not your fault. But healing starts when you turn that energy inward: validating yourself, nurturing your passions, strengthening bonds with compatible women, and recognizing that men can be a part of your life, but not its center eish! Truth is, there are many good women out there who make excellent friends but we sometimes either feel threatened to let them in because they're confident and self sufficient and demand respect or reciprocity whilst maintaining boundaries; while some don't fit the physical aesthetics we want or don't have a lot of money to make us feel proud of them in public. So we go ahead with our abandonment and attachment issues and keep attracting the same friendship dynamics in different bodies but complaining over and over again that women don't respect women. I will always repeat that healing certain things aligns you with everything and everyone that you need, I am a testament to this!
I feel somewhat disgusted by how I used to center men in the past but thank goodness for healing!

© Ella

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