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COLD DOESN’T CAUSE PNEUMONIA IN BABIES: HERE’S WHAT REALLY DOES AND HOW TO PREVENT ITMany people believe that drinking c...
14/09/2025

COLD DOESN’T CAUSE PNEUMONIA IN BABIES: HERE’S WHAT REALLY DOES AND HOW TO PREVENT IT

Many people believe that drinking cold water in pregnancy or exposing a baby to cold weather causes pneumonia. This is a myth. Pneumonia is not caused by cold, it is caused by an infection in the lungs.

So what really causes pneumonia?
Pneumonia happens when bacteria or viruses infect a baby’s lungs and make breathing difficult. These germs can spread through the air when someone coughs or sneezes near the child, or sometimes after a simple cold that didn’t get better.

Cold weather itself does not cause pneumonia, but because coughs and colds are more common during rainy and cold seasons, babies can be more easily exposed to the germs that lead to pneumonia.

Warning signs to watch out for in your baby:
• Fast or difficult breathing
• Chest pulling in with each breath
• Grunting or noisy breathing
• High fever
• Cough (with or without catarrh)
• Refusing to feed or poor appetite
• Baby is weak, very sleepy, or unusually irritable

Important reminders:
• Pneumonia is not malaria, so malaria drugs or herbs will not cure it.
• Drinking cold water in pregnancy cannot give your baby pneumonia.
• Early hospital treatment can save a baby’s life.

How to protect your baby:
• Keep your baby warm and away from people who are coughing or sneezing.
• Do not expose your baby to smoke from firewood, ci******es, or burning materials.
• Treat coughs and colds early and monitor your baby closely.
• Seek medical care immediately if you notice any warning signs.

Pneumonia can be serious, but with quick medical attention babies recover well. As parents, your fast action can make all the difference.

Cred:Midwife Chiamaka

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13/09/2025

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13/09/2025

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Daughter of gas station owner disappeared at her 15th birthday party, six years after this. Roberto Alejandro Vázquez He...
13/09/2025

Daughter of gas station owner disappeared at her 15th birthday party, six years after this. Roberto Alejandro Vázquez Hernández closed the cash register at his gas station located on López Mateos Avenue.

Six years had passed since his daughter Valentina disappeared during a 15th birthday party, and every day he closed the business, he remembered that she never returned home that night of April 15, 2017. The cleaning employee, Rodrigo Pérez Villanueva, had been working at the gas station for two years. That afternoon, while cleaning the service area, he noticed that one of the floor tiles had come loose near the rear storage area.

When he lifted it up to repair it, he found a plastic bag buried in a shallow pit. "Mr. Vázquez, you need to see this," Esteban shouted from the backyard. Roberto walked over to his employee. Esteban was holding a clear bag containing a pink cell phone with a butterfly sticker, several documents, and a silver bracelet with the name Valentina engraved in cursive.

"Where did this come from?" Roberto asked, feeling his legs shake. "It was buried here under this slab. Looks like someone hid it years ago," Esteban replied, handing him the bag. Roberto immediately recognized the phone.

It was the same one he had given Valentina for her 15th birthday, two months before she disappeared. The bracelet was also his. He had worn it on his friend Sofía Beatriz Mendoza Jiménez's quinceañera party. Inside the bag was also Valentina's school ID, a pharmacy receipt dated April 14, 2017, and a handwritten note that read: "Everything is planned for tomorrow, no one will suspect a thing." Dacr.
Roberto called. immediately to Inspector Joaquín Gabriel Torres Santa María, who had handled the original case of Valentina's disappearance.......

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When Oprah Winfrey was born in rural Mississippi in 1954, the odds were stacked against her. Her mother was just a teena...
13/09/2025

When Oprah Winfrey was born in rural Mississippi in 1954, the odds were stacked against her. Her mother was just a teenager herself, working as a maid, and her father was mostly absent. Oprah grew up in deep poverty, wearing dresses made from potato sacks because her grandmother could not afford store-bought clothes.

Her early childhood was filled with instability. She was moved between family members, first raised by her grandmother and later sent to live with her mother in Milwaukee. Life became harder there. The neighborhood was unsafe, and her mother worked long hours, leaving young Oprah vulnerable. Between the ages of nine and thirteen, she endured sexual abuse from relatives and family friends. With no one to confide in, she carried the trauma silently while holding on to her love for reading and public speaking, two things that gave her comfort and confidence.

By fourteen, Oprah became pregnant. She was just a young girl, and the weight of the world pressed down on her shoulders. The pregnancy was not something she chose, but something forced on her by circumstances. When her secret came out, her mother felt overwhelmed and sent her away to live with her father in Tennessee. Her baby was born prematurely and died shortly after birth. For Oprah, it was devastating. She later admitted that she felt broken, ashamed, and convinced that her life had already been decided for her, that she was doomed to failure.

But her father, Vernon Winfrey, saw things differently. He was strict but steady. He gave her discipline, curfews, and most importantly, books. He made her read one every week and discuss it with him. Slowly, structure and education gave Oprah a new sense of worth. She realized she was not just a poor Black girl from Mississippi. She had a voice, she had a mind, and she had the ability to shape her own story.

In high school, Oprah began to flourish. She joined the speech team, entered beauty pageants, and won a scholarship to Tennessee State University. By nineteen, she landed her first job as a news anchor. It was the start of a journey that would take her from small-town radio to becoming the host of The Oprah Winfrey Show, the most watched daytime talk show in history.

Looking back, Oprah has said that losing her child at fourteen was one of the most painful experiences of her life, but it also marked a turning point. It forced her to grow, to fight for her own survival, and to find strength in education and faith. She once said, “Turn your wounds into wisdom.” That is exactly what she did.

Today, Oprah is celebrated not only for her career success but also for her compassion, generosity, and ability to connect with people. She has built schools for girls in South Africa, donated millions to charities, and become a symbol of hope for people who feel like their past defines them.

Her story is a reminder that even the hardest and darkest chapters can lead to light. Like Maya Angelou, Oprah’s teenage pregnancy and loss did not end her life. It shaped her into the woman who would one day change millions of lives.

Photo credit : Oprah Winfrey


My 12-year-old niece always lies to her mom, and recently she wanted to go to her 15-year-old boyfriend’s ball. Her mom ...
13/09/2025

My 12-year-old niece always lies to her mom, and recently she wanted to go to her 15-year-old boyfriend’s ball. Her mom said no. But instead of giving up, she called me—her favorite “Teddy.”

So, I lied to my sister and took her. I even let her wear makeup. At the end of the night, I stood right there as her boyfriend kissed her on the cheek to say goodnight. Honestly, there was no harm—he was very respectful.

When my sister later saw the pictures on Facebook, she completely lost it. But here’s the thing: she’s too focused on trying to control her daughter instead of listening to her. Locking kids down doesn’t keep them innocent—it just makes them sneakier.

At least with me, my niece can be honest and feel safe. I’d rather guide her than raise an angry, secretive child just to protect her mom’s ego. But I guess some people prefer bragging about being “strict” instead of actually understanding their own kids.

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I called my husband on the  phone to ask him for money so I could cook but a police officer picked it up.He asked me who...
13/09/2025

I called my husband on the phone to ask him for money so I could cook but a police officer picked it up.He asked me who I am to my husband and I replied that I'm his wife .He then told me to come to Safe life hospital because my husband had an accident .

In fear and distress I quickly dressed up and rushed to the hospital.When I got there he was unconscious .I was nervous but kept hoping he survives ..I was not ready to be a widow at 35 years with 3 kids .

The hospital requested money to buy blood .I immediately transferred all the 50 thousand naira in my account .But they still needed more money to deposit .The policeman handed my husband's phone to me so that I could open it and make payment to the hospital .

Shamefully,I couldn't open it because I do not know his password...

All efforts to open it were abortive .I didn't even have any idea of what the password might be .

The policeman was so angry that how would i not be able to open my husband's phone ..Well it is what it is

I just assured the hospital that they should continue with the treatment that I will rally round to get them paid .

Not up to 30 min his phone rang and the contact was saved as "source of joy" .The policeman picked and put it on speaker .It was a lady's voice saying "baby you didn't even call me" I was shocked 😦😲😳

The policeman asked her who she is to him and she said she's a friend .The policeman asked again, a friend or a girlfriend? and she said a girlfriend..He said she should come to the hospital that her boyfriend had an accident.

Infact not less than 20 minutes.She got to the hospital.After some talks ,the policeman asked her if she knows his password that the hospital needed some funds and she said YES.. My head travelled ...Mind you ,she doesn't know I'm the wife or whatever .The police already warned me not to fight her when she comes .

The police asked her to call the password.She did and i Immediately saved it on my head .I stylishly pressed it on my phone so I won't forget .Hmmm .What i the wife didn't know a concubine knows it .Men will stain your White

The policeman transfered a sum of 200 thousand naira to the hospital in the presence of all of us to avoid any fraudulent.. Now his girlfriend said he wanted to be going as she has other things to fix.

The policeman asked her who would stay with him and this woman bluntly said "He has a wife .Put a call through to his wife" .If he die now ,where would I carry him to ?" I was shocked .Why because I thought she didn't know he's married .Maybe she was being deceived by my husband.But guess what ?she knows ....She left the hospital.The policemen left too

I had already told a neighbor to look after the children for me.I then unclocked the phone .My husband has 8 million is his account and I didn't even have 80k as a wife .

I checked the transaction between him and his girlfriend 😞 he even transferred 1.5million to her that same day .This man has never given me 100k before .I felt pitied for my self .Looking like a mad rechered woman while my husband is doing financially okay

The least he has sent to this lady was 500k ..In this year alone he has giving her more than 5 million and I was there taking care of the children even with the little I have as a petty trader in which my family contributed for me so I can have something doing .

I checked their chats ,I felts a cold within me I was shaking .They were doing all things together .He has never licked me .But he licks this lady each time they want to have a thing together ..I'm not a dirty woman and I'm very beautiful to the best of my knowledge.This was the man that begged begged before I accepted to date him then back in the uni .

I immediately transferred 5 million to my account leaving the rest for hospital needs and the surgery he wants to do .His spinal cord was broken .

Now my husband won't be able to walk for now only on wheel chair ..Do you think I deserve to bear that stress ?

He was an abusive husband. He cheated on me several times, he doesn't make love to me ,he tortured me both physically and emotionally.I saw hell . He killed my self esteem .I saw a pure hatred from this man.He detest me so much.I would beg and cry to love me .He knows am not a cheating type .I would have to cry for him to make love to me .Even when he does .He won't kiss me .No connection .No affection.Nothing .I really suffered

The business I'm doing ,my family opened it for me. So many countless sleepless nights .I would cry and hold his leg to pity me .He would kick me up or shouts at me that my cry is disturbing him

It was when I had access to his phone that I knew he earned 800k as salary .He has been working for 10 years .Nothing to show for it .

I had to run away with my children and with the 5m I took from his account .

They are calling me wicked .But I don't care .I can't take care of a man who didn't take care for me when he was healthy

Let his girlfriend take care of him

When I needed him ,I didn't see him .Let him deal with it .May God heal him




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After 21 years of marriage, one day my wife pulled me aside. She looked at me gently and said there was something she wa...
13/09/2025

After 21 years of marriage, one day my wife pulled me aside. She looked at me gently and said there was something she wanted from me: she wanted me to spend an evening with another woman. To take her out to dinner, and maybe to a movie afterward.

“I love you,” she said, “but I know she loves you too. And I want you to give her a little of your time.”

That other woman was my mother. She had been living alone for 19 years, ever since my father passed away. Between work, daily life, and my three children, I only visited her occasionally.

That very evening, I called her. I asked if she would like to go out to dinner with me.
“Is something happening?” she asked, surprised.
“No, nothing special,” I replied. “It’s just that… I’d like to spend some time with you. Just the two of us.”

On the other end, a long silence. Then her voice, emotional: “I’d really love that.”

The following Friday, I went to pick her up. I was a bit nervous; it had been a long time since we had gone out, just the two of us. She had dressed up, hair done, wearing the same dress she had worn for her last wedding anniversary with Dad. When she got in the car, her smile was that of a little girl.
“I told my friends I was going out with my son tonight… they were all curious. They want to know everything!”

We chose a simple, intimate little restaurant. She took my arm as if we were at a grand gala.
Sitting at the table, I read the menu aloud: her eyesight had grown weak, making the print hard to read. When I looked up, she was there, watching me with a tender expression.
“When you were little, I used to read the menu to you…”
“Then it’s only fair that now it’s my turn,” I replied.

We dined, chatting—not extraordinary, just us, our lives, our memories. We talked so much we forgot about the movie. But it didn’t matter. That evening was already perfect.

When I drove her home, she said: “I want to do this again. But next time… let me invite you.”
I smiled. “Promise.”

Back home, my wife asked: “How was it?”
“Better than I could have imagined.”

But that second outing never happened. A few days later, my mother passed away suddenly from a heart problem.

A few weeks later, I received an envelope. Inside was the restaurant receipt. She had already paid for two. Attached was a small note in her own handwriting:
“I didn’t know if there would be a next time, so I paid in advance. It’s for you and your wife. That evening meant a lot to me. I love you, my son.”

That day, I truly understood how much the little things matter.
How important it is to say “I love you,” and to make time for those who love us.
Because nothing in the world is more precious than that.


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