Soul Detective

22/12/2025

“The common assumption is that we are lazy, irresponsible or negligent if we forget or are distracted as we shift between priorities competing for our attention.

— Ellen Langer would say: “not so fast.”

The mama of “Mindfulness” (a term she coined that has actually very little to do with meditation - to which it’s since become associated) argues that we confuse “other minded” with “absent minded.”

As a woman who has infuriated many partners for leaving a passport at home, misplacing keys or putting a chicken in the oven too late, I am familiar with the stung expression of someone on the receiving end of one of my mental slips.

In fact, I too have suffered at the hand of these sometimes abrupt ruptures of attention, to the point where I questioned whether they were mere self sabotage.”

READ MORE ON MY LATEST SUB (🔗↗️)

20/12/2025

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06/12/2025

If you’re a client or friend of mine, I’ve probably recommended you see Taichi at some point or another when you were suffering from some unexplained symptoms (physically or emotionally).

Taichi Iwano is trained as an acupuncturist (among many other things) but his technique of reading the body - speaking to specific organs and chakras - blurs the boundaries between medicine and channeling.

While he used to only do in person sessions in Toronto - which meant sending friends and family on a train for a day trip - in lockdown years, he discovered he could work with the same precision remotely, even just with the voice (this was my experience with Tarot).

This made clear that not only does Taichi bypass our thinking mind when he makes his highly accurate diagnostics, but that the body is actually a conduit to something much larger - “the earth as a storage USB.”

Find out more from this remarkable healer and man on the first interview and second episode of my podcast.

Listen now via the link in bio & please consider subscribing to my Substack 🙏🏽.

19/11/2025

17/11/2025

{Please note: if you skip right ahead to listening >> I recommend *not* listening with headphones. The fan was on over my recording and created interference static which I was able to remove but which left the audio glitchy in certain parts.}

🪶 In this podcast, I discuss the sudden loss of my father in May and how my grief and self perception evolved in the months that followed. Specifically, I note how my guilt or regret over how things could’ve gone differently leading up to the event evolved into a deeper level of acceptance around the inevitability of self.

This solo exploration reflects on whether events really change us - no matter how earth shattering - or if instead, they contribute to a kind of expanded authenticity. As we grow, do we release the limits of our self conception or do we simply become more of who we already are - or both?

While many of us may hope that a change will come in and wash away past patterns, giving us a fresh slate to choose the person we want to be, I reference Nietzsche’s “eternal return of the same” to suggest that freedom may only come from no longer trying to escape our fate.

A statement on anti-perfectionism, loving ourselves when it is inconvenient and the paradox of how accepting our changeless nature can lead to true transformation.

As you can imagine - putting something out like this is SCARY. So if you feel called to support, please follow & rate “The Soul Detective Podcast” on Apple Podcasts & Spotify & mostly: subscribe to my Substack (linked ↗️)❣️

07/11/2025

You keep looking for clues but when the Muse drops a desire or idea at your doorstep, you don’t claim it because you’re not “certain.”

Start with what the muse has given you and she will bring you more. 🪶

06/11/2025

Turns out I only came back from Europe one month ago not two 🤔

DM to inquire about my CAMINO programs

20/10/2025

I do believe our soul is born with the weight of our unique potential. My mom once wrote an essay on this called the “golden egg” in which she describes how we carry this blessed burden on our backs as we move through life.

When stagnant, the weight can crush us into inaction.
When fired up, the shame can burn us out in overdrive.
When in a dance with life where we both lead and follow, that pressure can birth diamonds.

For this program, I have compiled 5 years of my business, which includes 36 workshops taught to my online membership over 3 years and dozens more in person, and distilled some core principles.

This framework is meant to be applied to each individual life path and to support each person in teasing out where they are shying away or betraying the Way that calls them forth and to build clarity around what meaningful steps can be taken at once to feel afoot upon one’s singular path again.

We meet weekly on Wednesdays at 5:30pm EST and have two bonus Saturday workshops with a very special guest teacher, medium .ca and a popular recurring divination workshop led by me in which we learn to channel our spirit teams (and receive messages from them via others).

Registration officially closed yesterday but I’ve extended it one more day to hopefully find the last special birds to join our flock.

Please send me a message if this speaks to you 🪽

17/10/2025

17 years of smoking w**d every day and I’ll tell you what finally worked to gain my power back in 2020.

IT WASN’T:

The 3 years of psychoanalysis nor the many years of therapy with a psychologist (when the latter passed it was one of the hardest I’ve cried in my life so it wasn’t that I didn’t appreciate them)

The high priced, world famous retreat I did at 19-20 yrs old (though it worked for a week or two until I went to a wedding)

Being a health nut or in the best shape of my life

Daily spiritual practice, meditation, prayer (though this did lead me to the solution)

WHAT ACTUALLY WORKED?

A sobriety circle.

- No trained professionals

- No fancy bio hacking

- No astral plane downloads

Just a group of humans showing up honestly, with daily commitment to the practices and a very strong incentive towards accountability.

When you did “one more day” you did it for them as well as yourself.

The principles, the tradition and guidelines handed down through experience - the filtering of what worked through countless repetition and became foundational — of course this neutrality is extremely important.

But my participation in those groups brought about a lasting change in my cells that has endured until today, in a way a lifetime of solo self improvement could never do (though I think my internal ritual muscles maintained the effects after the fact).

I know you may think a group program means you’re just saving $ because you can’t get all the juicy time to yourself, your struggles and your yearnings.

But I promise you it’s not that.

First off, the people my work attracts have always been special.

Second, our intuition is super powerful when we are not clouded by the biases we have about ourselves and our closest relationships. So the perspective of others on our situations CAN be invaluable (when welcomed).

Third, we do the work not just for ourselves but so that we help the momentum of the group, those who have similarly invested in the process. That means faster results (like when you workout harder in a group class because of embarrassment / healthy competition)

Lastly, synchronicity. The group that shows up always feels destined.

16/10/2025

What are you willing to throw into the fire or at least re-evaluate from the vantage point of raw truth, clue reading and self devotion to connect with what’s really meant for you and you for it?

JOIN ME as you navigate the transition that’s just begging for you to show up fully for it in my upcoming group program THE SOUL’S CAMINO: The Path That’s Only Yours.

8 weeks of live workshops & two bonus weekend ateliers (that’s French fancy for workshop).

Registration closes this Saturday and we start October 22 at 5:30pm EST.

DM to hop on.

12/10/2025

The truth is the timing for this program is selfish. I want to attend, participate and lead how I need to be served.

The CAREER CAMINO program I created last year was designed to be the course work I always needed and to be honest, I am still wrestling with how it’s possible to give it to myself.

{Perhaps we do a trade and co-lead each other > if you’re that person HMU).

But back to *this* program > THE SOUL’s CAMINO > it is also what I need right now and I’ve been explicit that I’ll be participating as well as guiding. I had a tendency to slip into that in my membership and do believe stories leave a greater impact than principles (which is why my blogs often had more impact than my instructional posts).

I am in a season of transition and I bet you are too. Grief has shaken me from the plans I worked so hard to root into but also had me return to existing plans with greater fervour and immediacy.

Where I want to be living / near whom and for how much of the year. What career tracks I want to be prioritizing. What aspects of legacy really matter to me. Financial priorities and timelines. Whether I care about some of the things I used to work really hard at…

I’ve always had somewhat of a fe**sh for transitions - I think they are my natural state where novelty relaxes me more than routine and I do believe I have a gift guiding others through them.

I’ve helped my clients navigate breakups, career changes, retirements and re-employment, cross-country moves with real precision and expediency. I have felt gratitude come my way when they look back and wonder, “why didn’t I sooner?” > the same way I often have to myself.

If you know there’s more for you > more in you > more you have to say and perhaps in new and unfamiliar forums and spaces = I’m here.

I’ll be leading the SOUL’s CAMINO group program for *getting your butt on your truest life path* starting OCTOBER 22nd > and every Wednesday at 5:30pm EST online (ends December 10).

If it doesn’t shake up your life up for the better… ahh forget it, I know it will 😏.

You up for the challenge?
Commitment, self loyalty and risk to the status quo required for admission.

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15/08/2025

My group membership has been paused since May and I resume my 1:1 intensive programs in October.

I’m the meantime, there are still 2 weeks available for one on one sessions before I travel for the month of September.

I have altered my existing subscription plans to lower the prices to accommodate the loss of group sessions.

Why do I only have monthly plans for 1:1 sessions?

Because I frequently assign supporting tools and self healing frameworks from my 38 workshop library. So when you pay for a session you are getting years of material that was sacredly formulated within the membership community.

Many of my clients have used these workshops again and again, even returning to redo their old favs and I feel that those that make use of these tools between sessions see the most impactful and lasting changes.

Why? Because they arrive to a conclusion or place of clarity on their own which builds a more entrenched pathway in their learned memory than if I just instructed them on which way to go.

Book a free clarity call if you’d like to explore which plan may be a fit for you. If you just want to dabble through the bookshelves of magic spells and practical tinctures or you want hand holding each step of the way with weekly sessions and WhatsApp support, there’s a plan for you.

⭐️ Any plan purchase now will pause at the end of the month and resume early September. 🙏🏽

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