23/01/2025
ČUDNO ALI ISTINITO
Niste izgubili ljubav svog života; oslobodili ste se lanaca predatora koji vam je crpio radost, snagu i identitet.
Narcis nije vaša srodna duša - oni su majstori manipulatora koji se skrivaju iza pažljivo izrađene maske. Osoba koju vidite na kraju veze, ona koja vas je odbacila bez empatije, je ono što je cijelo vrijeme bila.
Njihov šarm, njihova "magija", njihovo ljubavno bombardiranje - sve je to bila predstava. Lažna obećanja i plitke riječi prikrile su svoj pravi cilj: kontrolirati, iskorištavati i hraniti se vašom emocionalnom energijom dok vam ruše samopouzdanje.
Ono što ste pretrpjeli nije bila ljubav - bila je to proračunata igra moći. Gaslighting, kritiziranje i emocionalna manipulacija nisu bili činovi naklonosti, već oružje korišteno da vas natjeraju da sumnjate u sebe. Njihove izdaje nisu bile pogreške; bili su to namjerni potezi da vas drže zarobljenima u svom ciklusu zlostavljanja.
Ali evo snažne istine: niste izgubili člana obitelji - pobjegli ste iz noćne more.
Udaljavanje od tog toksičnog ciklusa zahtijevalo je nezamislivu snagu. Nije lako osloboditi se nekoga tko se pretvara da voli, ali teži kontroli, ali uspjeli ste. A sada, stojite u svjetlu slobode, niste više vezani za njihove laži.
Iscjeljenje počinje kada prihvatite ovo: niste bili voljeni, bili ste korišteni. Ali to ne definira vašu vrijednost ili vašu budućnost. Stvoreni ste za pravu ljubav, istinsku povezanost i život ispunjen radošću, autentičnošću i mirom.
Vrijedni ste da vas se istinski vidi, duboko čuje i istinski cijeni. Nikada ne pristajte na manje od ljubavi i poštovanja koje zaslužujete. Prava ljubav nije igra ili manipulacija - ona je ljubazna, strpljiva i istinita.
Dok se liječite, zapamtite ovo: najbolje tek dolazi. Povratili ste svoj život i čekaju vas pravi ljudi, prava ljubav i prava budućnost.
STRANGE BUT TRUTH
You didn’t lose the love of your life; you broke free from the chains of a predator who drained your joy, strength, and identity.
A narcissist isn’t your soul mate—they’re a master manipulator hiding behind a carefully crafted mask. The person you see at the end of the relationship, the one who discarded you without empathy, is who they’ve been all along.
Their charm, their “magic,” their love-bombing—all of it was a performance. False promises and shallow words disguised their real agenda: to control, exploit, and feed off your emotional energy while breaking down your confidence.
What you endured wasn’t love—it was a calculated game of power. Gaslighting, criticism, and emotional manipulation weren’t acts of affection but weapons used to keep you doubting yourself. Their betrayals weren’t mistakes; they were deliberate moves to hold you captive in their cycle of abuse.
But here’s the powerful truth: You didn’t lose a family member—you escaped a nightmare.
Walking away from that toxic cycle took unimaginable strength. Breaking free from someone who pretends to love but thrives on control isn’t easy, but you did it. And now, you’re standing in the light of freedom, no longer bound to their lies.
Healing begins when you accept this: you weren’t loved, you were used. But that does not define your worth or your future. You were created for real love, genuine connection, and a life filled with joy, authenticity, and peace.
You are worthy of being truly seen, deeply heard, and genuinely valued. Never settle for less than the love and respect you deserve. Real love isn’t a game or manipulation—it’s kind, patient, and true.
As you heal, remember this: the best is yet to come. You’ve reclaimed your life, and the right people, the right love, and the right future are waiting for you.
