16/02/2026
There’s something humbling about spending years supporting parents… and then becoming one.
I was confident in developmental psychology, I understood emotional regulation and I could explain consistency, attachment, and behaviour patterns very well.
And then I became a mum.
Motherhood didn’t disprove my knowledge.
It deepened it. Softened it. Complicated it.
Sleep deprivation reshaped my patience.
Love reshaped my understanding of worry.
Experience reshaped my certainty.
I’m still a psychologist.
But now I’m one with less rigidity and more compassion.
If you’re a parent, what belief did motherhood (or fatherhood) completely rewrite for you?
I’d genuinely love to hear the ones that humbled you. Save this if you’re learning in real time too 🤍