26/07/2021
Have you ever felt that you are repeating your parents’ stories?
If yes, it is true. We are. Especially in relationships.
The way our subconscious mind works is: during childhood we observe our parents’ dynamics. The mind choses one side, usually the side of that parents we perceive as a “victim”. The child’s mind, and later on the adult mind, wants to help and save that parent and heal their karma. In order to accomplish that, the subconscious mind re-creates in our own lives similar situations as our “victim” parent.
Did you have a father that suffered of alcoholism? Your subconscious mind could have teamed up with your mother. In order to “fix” her story, you might attract partners that suffer from alcoholism or other addictions. The outcome is…the need to heal that wound, fox that story, prove yourself that you can be happy. Does it work? Sometimes…yes. Other times we end up with the questions “how did i ever attract a partner that is identical to my father? I promised myself as a child i would never fall in love with such a man!”.
This pattern usually repeats itself until the inner child is healed. Until the need to fix things is removed. Until emotional independence is gained.
Alexandru