Newborn Devi - Creation for Mothering the New Mater

21/08/2022

https://www.thorne.com/take-5-daily/article/what-is-methylation-and-why-should-you-care-about-it?fbclid=IwAR2_cTuGOBdGeP5DIfv2oQoHnURMzMinvGbv8EA3mW7NMpgDqd7FrfUcamg

Here’s everything you need to know about the simple biochemical process known as methylation.

17/08/2022

02/08/2022

Postpartum is for life and the preparation for it begins before conception.
Our co-creator Raquel Lima is a living example of how all holistic preparation pays off in the postpartum period. Her glow is just empowering! Her mood is joyful, calm, and centered and her body has healed faster than the average period. With the loving support of the full-time presence of her life partner!
Life is never the same after giving birth, and we live in a culture that is prioritizing material baby-centered care but what more important is all the levels of health of the Mother- mental, emotional, social, and biochemical. How have we been forming our lives, our patterns, and family relations? Turning the focus inwards and becoming the cradle of the new life and consciousness.
And yes this is such a great living motivation to continue our work because all women deserve it!

13/07/2022

Crying is a self-soothing health response and it cools down the body, releases oxytocin and it restores the emotional balance. When children cry even after all their biological needs have been met, they are experiencing emotional release cry. In these moments they need to be held and shown the boundaries of care, love, support, and acceptance until they just cry it out. Situations like this are the perfect moment for the parents to sense what is going on in themselves emotionally and in the environment. Is there something they want to cry out but are not aware of?

From the common ways of cultivation, it is normal to feel uncomfortable in the presence of crying children or people and we try anything to stop it, prevent it, or distract it. This is how the process of self-healing has been disturbed and it opens a door for emotional suppression, addictions, and inflammatory processes which are heavily spread nowadays.

02/07/2022

What is the social nervous system response?
Babies use a social engagement system. if the baby is not responded to, the baby drops into a sympathetic response which is crying hard, if it is still not responded to, it will drop to parasympathetic response with a disassociation, shutting down, falling asleep on a sleep training for example because this is a survival strategy.
When a postpartum mother’s social connection which is an innate need for all adults: to be heard, understood, felt, and emotionally embraced is not met - there will be a stress response on a sympathetic level and it will manifest as irritation, anger, rage, anxiety. If the needs are still not met here then there is a drop in the parasympathetic system which shows up as confusion, fear, disorientation, collapse, and depression.
Mothers need to be held so that they can hold.

10/06/2022

Your own childhood wounds are often revealed by the experience of parenting. To assist the process of establishing new and supportive ways of being, seek a counselor, Recieve body and energy work, and make connections with other parents.

09/06/2022

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JRUPAwTN1P4

Struggling to achieve results with your postpartum clients who are experiencing back and pelvic pain? Watch this video to learn how the open birthing patter...

06/06/2022

"Mothering invites us back to the center, and in order to caretake the body and soul of our mothering, we must shift any habit or structure that beckons us away from this center point. Mothers know intimately the challenge of the modern divide between work and home life. This divide has a greater cost to the entire community; our energetic reserves are depleted when the home fires remain untended. The soul hungers for our creative presence in the home and other inner realms. The call back to the center of our bodies in mothering also invites a whole new manner of living."
Mothering from your center
Tami Lynn Kent

02/06/2022

We will make a nourishing pause in the creation of new workshops because of the happiest reason: the arrival of baby Iara of our co-creator and newborn Mother, Raquel Lima! Praise the mothers

30/05/2022

There are many worries as a parent. When a worry arises, move towards a blessing. Worry tends to contract and restrict energy, while blessing align and enhance the flow of parent- child energy bond.

24/05/2022

Taking care of Mothers is taking care of newborns 💗

Eating regularly not only for yourself but for your baby is very important during postpartum care. In our meals we have a whole days / few days and weeks worth of important meals you need through the day

Our Breakfast options
-Overnight oats
-Blueberry + Carrot Oat Bake
-Sweet Nepali Rice

Hydrate in between with our handmade milk production tea hero ingredients being fennel and fenurgreek

Snacks
-Raw date goji chocolate snack full of goodness
-Postpartum cookies made by .de

Main meals (can be enjoyed for lunch or dinner)

Lunch Suggestions
-Postpartum Stew
-Sh*ttike Miso soup
-Lentil Dahl

Dinner
-Veggie lasagna
-Spring minestrone soup
-Lentil Ragu with Pasta

It’s almost time for our summer menu change in a few weeks time!!! Rest, heal, nourish 🌸🌷
(Pictured our Goji Granola which may be coming back this summer)

15/05/2022

Have you read all the parenting books and get the concept that when you have kids they will trigger your own childhood stuff… BUT…

…struggle with W.T.* are you supposed to DO to ACTUALLY change things!!!

So when your kid does that thing that drives you nuts, and you feel the rush of anger, or they being extra needy and you are overwhelmed, and have a strong body sensation to pull away,

How, is it possible to ACTUALLY feel different, so you can authentically respond differently?

The thing is, most of these childhood experiences have a WAY deeper hold on us than we realise.

And these memories are NOT held in our conscious awareness, they have a somatic emotional charge!

So, when we try to change them from our mind...it can take a looooong time…

When we go directly to the source...our breath, body and nervous system...we can re-wire them quickly and easily.

Keen to know more? Or experience it yourself?

Rewire your triggers and create more freedom to choose your responses to each moment!

Join our 5 Dat FREE Breathwork Retreat online - Nervous System Reset !

https://www.thereconnected.com/nervous-system-reset

10/05/2022

A letter to the system~
"I am a mama without a village
I raise, cook, wash, tend, clean, taxi drive, hold space, tend emotions, I work, make money, to pay rent, food, school, car, and more. I set boundaries, fold washing, sweep floors, plant trees, organize schooling, breakfast time, lunch time, dinner time, bed time, time to work crammed in school times, time for groceries, while I bring my gifts and talents into the world despite my fears, I am present, I heal, I rest, time to rest? I give hugs for children’s feelings, kisses on scratched knees, I guard safety with clear no´s, healthy organic food all around, bike rides, movie times, bedtime stories, morning routines, teeth brushing dramas, playdates, birthday parties, Christmas presents, Saturday morning pancakes …
If I was super woman
I would cook bulk food each Sunday
But fortunately, on Sundays
I strike.
It takes a village
But my village is running
For the same errands
My daily job is weaving
A safety net
In tribal colors
And it´s exactly that job
That
I
don’t
have
time
or
energy
for
I always thought I was somehow escaping the system
But boy have you got me in a corner
With my back against the wall now
I am guilty of being woman
I am guilty of being a mother
A hungry system sapping my woman powers
While selling my woman value
On any old worn out street
Where I bargain for a few extra hours off
So that I can work to pay my rent
Meanwhile I am expected to
Look good
Work good
Be good
I am expected to be
Forever full moon
But actually
My back says
I need a massage
My sacrum says
I need more support
I am all the mamas without their villages
And still...
I rise
I will wear my invisible village
Like a blanket
Throughout time
I will hug the new moon
Listen to my bleeding body
And follow her guidance
Home
I may fail in your expectations
And you may fail to acknowledge
The gross imbalance
But still I rise."~

~Anna Begas

https://www.facebook.com/PlantAndSpiritMedicine/

art: Andrea Kowch

06/05/2022

We are so excited to announce the upcoming course:
Midwives and the Conscious Baby: An Introduction to Birth Psychology

For midwives and other birth workers to integrate the foundations of Birth Psychology personally and professionally as they relate to working with families during conception, pregnancy, birth, and postpartum.

Please join the email list to receive updates and a 20% off coupon to use when registration opens.

To register, visit: https://birthpsychology.ck.page/midwives-course

03/05/2022

Dear future mothers, we have had requests from pregnant women who can not attend the live workshops because of health complications, to create an online workshop online as well. Write to us for more information and requests.

03/05/2022

Like all spiritual journeys, the challenges you encounter will show the psychic debris that has accumulated in your energetic fields. Children will assist you in meeting your shadow and finding the obstacles that limit your spiritual growth.

25/04/2022