03/08/2025
The worst thing for a woman is not the fight.
It is the moment she gathers the courage to speak to a man about his behavior –
because it hurt her –
and instead of listening, he becomes angry and blames her.
She is not speaking to start a fight.
She speaks because she loves.
Because she has hope.
Because she believes he will hear her.
But instead of understanding, she meets resistance.
Instead of closeness, she feels coldness.
He distracts, twists her words, criticizes her tone or timing –
and suddenly, it is no longer about her pain,
but about the fact that she dared to speak at all.
And that hurts.
Not only because of the content – but because of the message:
“Your feelings are a problem.
Your voice is too much.
Your pain does not matter.”
What remains is a wound she carries alone –
in silence, in suppression, in self-adjustment.
Peace does not come from silence.
Not from giving in.
It comes from truly listening.
When that is missing, she begins to lose herself – piece by piece.
Just to keep up appearances.
Just to save the “us.”
Over time, she starts to wonder:
“Am I too sensitive?”
“Am I overreacting?”
“Should I just stop?”
But deep down she knows:
This is not what love feels like.
Not like guilt.
Not like silence.
Not like invisibility.
When a woman has the courage to speak about her pain,
it is a gift – a final invitation to grow together.
If this gesture is met with anger or blame,
she loses not only trust –
she begins to lose herself.
Because there are few things more destructive to a relationship
than a woman who feels wrong
simply for wanting to be treated right.
