16/09/2024
A few days ago we did a journaling exercise on „what do I thin I am not“
We only look at the negatives to understand the underlying beliefs that have been holding us in a loop.
We don´t dwell on them.
When there is a shoe laying on your floor and you fall over that shoe, you don’t go „Oh there is a shoe on my floor, that is why every time I walk by I stumble“.
You will think „I don’t want to stumble, but I did. What is in the way? Ah! A shoe! Let´s put it away!“
Right?
Same with our belief system. We practice to focus on the good, on the things we want for the future. And when we notice, it doesn’t have the effect we wanted, there is most likely a shoe-thought laying in the way. So we pause to identify it and to reframe it.
It might feel odd, to mainly focus on the positive and on the things we want, because we are living in a world that recycles the negative over and over. We live with a brain that is build to protect us from danger and therefore focuses on possible threats, if we let it run by default.
This is why a constant practice is necessary, to put our intention on what we want rather then what needs to be avoided.
To invest our energy on what we want to create, rather than what we fear.
With the support of a coach, you safe yourself a lot of time. Message me for more information on my 1:1 coaching. I am looking forward to meet you! Much love! Alexandra
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