Karin Elmerot Dausell - Psykoterapi også med fokus på kroppen

03/07/2025

Denne sommer holder jeg kun fri enkelte dage. Så hvis du har brug for et forløb hos mig, så kontakt mig på mobil 30496526 eller karin.e.d@icloud.com
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Kærligst, Karin

12/06/2025

11/06/2025

Gråd har altid et budskab

EARLY ROOTS OF DEMOCRACY

Crying is a newborn child's first expression of opinion. It protests against living conditions that do not suit it. It raises its voice to point out deficits, pain or loss of relationships.

It also cries to point out a lack of human support. Baby crying is an imperative. It calls on us - adults, parents and educators - to act. Be with me! Calm me down! Hold me! Warm me! Talk to me! Nurture me! Baby cries contain messages that need to be received and responded to. In order to pacify a baby's crying, a prompt response is needed in the social sphere. Only when the responsible people adequately receive the child's expressions of displeasure and respond appropriately will the child feel heard and noticed in its distress.

If this cognitive and emotional coordination is successful, the child experiences successful intersubjectivity. His voice is heard and taken seriously by his social environment. In all of this, the baby learns that it can make a difference with its efforts. In our Emotional First Aid - work we help young parents to hear, tolerate and respond sensitively to these “baby songs”. In this way, we create a basis for our children to be able to accept and respond to other people's voices later on.

Only those who have been reliably heard by their fellow human beings, who have had the experience of being able to deal with their feelings and feelings of others from the very beginning, will be able to respond.

Only those who have been reliably heard by their fellow human beings, who experience from the outset that their feelings and needs are taken seriously, develop trust in a supportive and protective world. If we take away babies' right to cry, it means that we take away their right to freedom of expression. Instead of experiencing a supportive closeness, the child has to drink, suck or swallow its feelings. Instead of entering into a lively dialog with its environment, it is forced to change itself and make itself fit in. The baby's protest gets stuck in its throat. The result is that we fall silent and become still.

In Emotional First Aid, babies and toddlers experience that their voice is given a weight that has meaning even when we disagree.

Thomas Harms
www.zeppbremen.de
Photo: jessica-hearn-gD-wfCMzTK4-unsplash.jpg

07/06/2025

Jeg lå vågen i nat. Jeg lå også vågen natten til den 7. juni 2021. Vågen, vågende. Hos min mand, som var døende. Han forlod den fysiske verden i den tidlige morgentime. Det, vi kalder at dø, kan ligesom det at blive født, være en intens energimæssig og bevidsthedsmæssig begivenhed. At være der, lige ved siden af, at følge hvad der sker, være nærværende i den intense proces, hvor den anden giver slip, kan være en stor bevidsthedsmæssig gave. For mange også en stor udfordring. For mig var en en gave, og et sidste intenst møde. Jeg vil ønske for alle, at nogen er der, i den stund hvor du giver slip. Det gør ikke sorgen mindre. Men døden bliver ikke et sort hul eller intethed. Det bliver nærvær, kærlighed, ind over den grænse vi kalder døden. Og et menneske du har elsket, vil du altid bære i dit hjerte. Og vores menneskehjerte er stort. Der er plads til kærlighed, både til dem der går ud af vores liv, dem der er der, og dem der kommer ind.
Den 7. juni 2025 - i taknemmelighed og kærlighed.
Karin

23/05/2025

Blomstertid🦋❤️

28/04/2025

Når du kommer til min klinik, mødes du i denne tid af to blomstrende japanske kirsebærtræer. Du møder også et “Til salg”-skilt. Jeg har boet på dette dejlige sted i mange år sammen med min mand. Efter hans død i 2021 har jeg boet her alene. Nu er det tid for mig at finde et nyt mindre sted - når den rette køber finder huset her. - Bare rolig - jeg bliver på Djursland! Så hvis du starter et forløb op hos mig, så kan du fortsat finde mig uden den store afstand.
Du er altid velkommen at kontakte mig på 30496526 eller på mail karin.e.d@icloud.com
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Kærligst, Karin

18/04/2025

Jeg ønsker alle en skøn og glædesfyldt påske!
Kærligst, Karin

27/03/2025

Know the overlap between autism, ADHD & giftedness...

27/03/2025

04/03/2025

An important quote for these times…

“In any dark time, there is a tendency to veer toward fainting over how much is wrong or unmended in the world. Do not focus on that. There is a tendency to fall into being weakened by dwelling on what is outside your reach, by what cannot yet be. Do not focus there. That is spending the wind without raising the sails. We are needed, that is all we can know. And though we meet resistance, we more so will meet great souls who will hail us, love us and guide us, and we will know them when they appear. Didn't you say you were a believer? Didn't you say you pledged to listen to a voice greater? Didn't you ask for grace? Don't you remember that to be in grace means to submit to the voice greater?

Ours is not the task of fixing the entire world all at once, but of stretching out to mend the part of the world that is within our reach. Any small, calm thing that one soul can do to help another soul, to assist some portion of this poor suffering world, will help immensely. It is not given to us to know which acts or by whom, will cause the critical mass to tip toward an enduring good. What is needed for dramatic change is an accumulation of acts, adding, adding to, adding more, continuing. We know that it does not take "everyone on Earth" to bring justice and peace, but only a small, determined group who will not give up during the first, second, or hundredth gale.

One of the most calming and powerful actions you can do to intervene in a stormy world is to stand up and show your soul. Soul on deck shines like gold in dark times. The light of the soul throws sparks, can send up flares, builds signal fires, causes proper matters to catch fire. To display the lantern of soul in shadowy times like these - to be fierce and to show mercy toward others, both, are acts of immense bravery and greatest necessity. Struggling souls catch light from other souls who are fully lit and willing to show it. If you would help to calm the tumult, this is one of the strongest things you can do.

There will always be times when you feel discouraged. I too have felt despair many times in my life, but I do not keep a chair for it; I will not entertain it. It is not allowed to eat from my plate. The reason is this: In my uttermost bones I know something, as do you. It is that there can be no despair when you remember why you came to Earth, who you serve, and who sent you here. The good words we say and the good deeds we do are not ours: They are the words and deeds of the One who brought us here. In that spirit, I hope you will write this on your wall:
When a great ship is in harbor and moored, it is safe, there can be no doubt. But that is not what great ships are built for. This comes with much love and a prayer that you remember who you came from, and why you came to this beautiful, needful Earth.”

~ Clarissa Pinkola Estes

Image: A cairn guiding us out of the dark, by Arielle Schwartz

02/02/2025

Alderens og erfaringernes visdom

I once knew a woman
With lines on her face
Who’d lived most her life
In a much different place

A place where those lines
Were respected, revered
Where it was known
They held the wealth of her years

And here, in a place
That was scared to grow old
She made us all realise
The beauty age holds

For one day she stood
And attracted a crowd
She started to speak
As we all gathered round

And we hung on each word,
We were all mesmerised
For her voice was so powerful,
Knowing and wise

She smoothed down the crown
Of her hair on her head
Then she lifted her chin
And her voice as she said

“These lines are not something
To hide or to fear
But something that says
‘I have lived, I was here’

They’re not to be counted
Like bars of a cage
But like rings of a tree
That grows stronger with age

Grounded and grand
Persevering and proud
I’ve earned every stripe
So I’ll wear them out loud

And though you might think
I’d look better with none
Just wait til you learn
How I earned every one

Because I’m much more
Than the way that I look
And these lines on my face
Are like lines from a book

That holds all the tales
Of the things gone before me
So come, take a seat
And I’ll tell you my story.

Becky Hemsley Poetry

art | Krystal Kliedon. The Timeless Matriarch Collection

21/12/2024

Glædeligt vintersolhverv - Glædelig Jul - og Glædesfyldt Nytår - ønsker jeg alle! Tak for dejlige og meningsfyldte møden i 2024!
Kærligst, Karin