
28/03/2025
đż How to Make a Change When You Feel Stuckđż
I know what it feels like to be stuck. The overwhelming feeling of wanting to change but not knowing how, or feeling like youâre trapped in the same cycle. I want you to know, you're not alone, and CHANGE IS POSSIBLE!
Here's how to begin:
đ¸ Understand That Being "Stuck" Is Just a Feeling, Not a Reality
When you feel stuck, it can seem like nothing is changing. But in reality, time is always moving forward, and everything around you is in motion, even if it doesnât feel like it. The feeling of being stuck comes from repeating the same patterns â mental, emotional, and physical â that your brain has developed over time. But here's the good news: these patterns can change.
đą Start with Your Thoughts
Change begins in your mind. Often, we feel stuck because our thoughts are stuck. If youâre constantly thinking "Iâll never get out of this," "I canât manage this," or "Iâm not enough," then your brain has been conditioned to keep reinforcing those beliefs. But YOU have the power to change these thoughts, one moment at a time.
Take a deep breath and begin with small shifts in your thinking. Ask yourself: "What can I do today to change this situation, even in the smallest way?", âI CAN!â, âI WANT TO CHANGE!â, âANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!â.
đż Example: Money Worries
Letâs say youâre dealing with financial stress â too many bills and not enough income. It feels overwhelming, right? But instead of getting stuck in the panic, ask yourself:
"What *one* thing can I do today to feel more in control of this situation?"
It might be as simple as setting up a payment plan or reaching out for support. The key is taking small steps, without judgment. You can even get some ideas like maybe you have some things you donât use and you can sell.
đđźââď¸ You Are Not Defined by Your Circumstances
Life might feel challenging right now, but it doesnât define who you are. You are more than your current situation, and Iâm here to remind you that you have the power to create change at your own pace. You donât have to have everything figured out today. One step at a time is enough.
đˇ Take Care of Yourself, Always
As you move through this process, be gentle with yourself. Change doesnât happen overnight. Itâs okay to feel uncertain. Itâs okay to have setbacks. You are allowed to take it slow and go at your own pace.
If you feel like you need extra support or simply someone to talk to, a Life Coach might make a big difference but in the end YOU ARE THE CHANGE!
You are a decision away from changing your current situation and later on, your life!
Your HLCoach,
Lena Nielsen