25/02/2026
Let’s talk about doubt shall we?
Sneaky little fu**er
I don’t like doubt
I don’t like doubting myself
Or my business
My strategies
My content
My coaches
My choices…
And yet it’ll creep in
often unannounced
and get all nice and comfy
(But like feet up, eating my snacks kinda comfy)
🤬
But u know what?
It used to be way worse
I used to be so afraid of doubt…
Like really afraid
When he’d show up I’d freak the f**k out
He’d knock my door down, shouting and yelling, throwing s**t about
And I would obviously panic, spiral, the works
So things are much better now
Im not so scared
Not so intimidated
Not so offended
Because I realized something important
***My work wasn’t to get rid of doubt***
It was to befriend him, listen to him, get to know him…
Why does he barge in?
What’s he yelling about?
Why’s he yelling?
And now that I know what he is, what he wants and why he shows up
I also know WHEN he’ll show up
(Preparing for his arrival takes away so much of his power)
Now I get to say
Nope.
Not today motherf*ckerrrr
And if you are coming in
You knock
You behave
You don’t raise your voice
You follow my rules now
💪
So yes
Doubt still visits
But he’s quieter
Wayyy quieter
Sometimes announced
Sometimes overstaying his welcome
And when that happens
I remember how bad it used to be
And how far I’ve come
Taking my power back
Because the more I take my power back the more I remember that I am my own best resource
I know how to source my own safety
I know how to meet my own needs
I’m educated, empowered and equipped
⚙️🛠️🧠❤️🩹
But in business especially:
❌ doubt isn’t necessarily a sign you’re doing s**t wrong
✅ It’s more often than not just the discomfort of becoming someone you’ve never been before
So if doubt is f**king with your head right now
shouting too loud
Trying to run the show
Tell it to shut tf up!
You’re the boss of you 💪
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To my women, building mission driven businesses, taking back our power…
We got this 💪💪💪