19/01/2026
Note to self and maybe to you, too.
Looking for signs isn’t weakness.
It’s conditioning.
It often begins when your truth wasn’t believed.
When your feelings were questioned, dismissed, or minimized.
So you learned to look outward for validation, reassurance, proof.
External confirmation feels safer than inner knowing
because inner knowing once came with consequences.
But here’s the truth most people don’t want to face:
When you constantly ask the world for signs,
you’re outsourcing your authority.
Your nervous system learned to survive by doubting itself.
That doesn’t mean your intuition is broken.
It means it was silenced.
Self-trust isn’t built by collecting more evidence.
It’s built the moment you stop negotiating with your own experience.
You felt it.
You sensed it.
Your body knew.
That was enough information.
Healing is the quiet decision to believe yourself again
even when no one else claps, agrees, or confirms it.
If you’re tired of second-guessing yourself and want to rebuild deep, embodied self-trust, this is exactly the work I do.
Reach out when you’re ready 💜
www.PeterJulius.com