Birth Wisdom with Rosalia

Birth Wisdom with Rosalia Sharing and rejoicing in the ancient wisdom that every person carries within them. Offering support Birthing From Within Mentoring.

Birth services include: Pregnancy, birth and postpartum doula. Sacred Pregnancy Facilitation, Birth journey and Belly Binding. Reiki hearing and therapeutic massage.

22/04/2026

A reshare from 4 years ago because I still feel this is so true today. It is not about creating fear but opening a dialogue where informed choice is possible.


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No, no, no! Just no!

We need to stop with this archaic belief! A pregnant body most often does not need help to birth a baby.

Of course there are situations and factors that augment the necessity for intervening but as a rule, the human body is quite capable of opening up and letting out.

What are some things that could make an episiotomy (or any intervention) necessary?

💥Lack of privacy
💥Lack of information
💥Lack of support
💥Lack of adequate skills in attending caregiver
💥Restrictions on movement
💥Forced back-lying positions for birth
💥Use of stirrups or other means of keeping knees and legs open
💥Forced pushing and breath holding

So what can a person do to have a better chance?

⭐️Create your own space and lower lights, minimise interruptions and avoid observers
⭐️Get educated and do antenatal classes so you and your partner know your options and rights
⭐️Get extra support from a local doula that has experience
⭐️Ask what the episiotomy rate or intervention rate is for the establishment you will be choosing to birth in. Find out about the caregiver what their rate is. Ask questions to find out what they are doing to reduce their numbers
⭐️Move around in labour and help descend well into the pelvis and encourage baby into an optimal position
⭐️Discover positions for birth and try out different ones to find which feel good for you. Explore which positions open up the outlet better. You’ll be surprised to know it is not with your legs and knees wide open!!!
⭐️Explore your pelvic floor and the dynamics therein and practice breathing out and down.

There is much you can do but the key here is to know more and stay firm to what you request. It is not always easy to stand up to authority but if you know the facts and the evidence proves the facts, you are within your rights to expect better from outdated systems and practices!

17/04/2026

Being a professional doula is a commitment.

There is a lot that goes into being a doula. Many people think that 10% goes into the prenatal work and 90% goes towards the birth.

The truth is that so much goes into the prenatal and other aspects so that the birth can feel like it is getting all the support it deserves.

For me to be a doula the price I charge covers many aspects that people might not realise. From day to day travelling, meals while on the go, body work and it doesn’t take into account the expenses incurred for continuing education nor the taxes paid from the overall price.

I was asked why “I” specifically charge so much for “just” being a doula. My answer was “because you deserve it”. This person was a bit puzzled.

My “just” being a doula doesn’t mean you get minimal care. It comes with a lot of attention, information, support and even love.

After their birth, the above person said that they would have gladly paid double or more for my fee after understanding all they got but when signing up, they did not understand at all how the money they were spending would earn them something in return.

Too many people have the wrong idea about a doula. Too many compare us to midwives. A few think we are out to steal money from them for doing nothing much.

Here is a guesstimate of what goes into being your doula:

10% phone support
15% postpartum support
15% 24/7 on call support
20% prenatal support
40% birth support
100% commitment

If you are interested in more go read my blog post about why you should hire and pay your doula here https://birth.fi/why-hire-and-pay-for-a-doula/

11/04/2026

The first thing I do as a doula…

…is to get to know you.

I want us to be comfortable together so that you can truly let go when labour starts. My goal is to build a relationship of trust so that you know I’ve got your back no matter what.

I build our relationship from the ground up. I will meet with you many, many times before your birth so that we have time to build our relationship.

Nothing is taboo in our meetings, we discuss the fears, worries, joys and traumas of our lives so that together we can create a solid structure for the support you need.

This makes every interaction unique. My work is never the same with each client, and in fact even with the same client coming back again for the next birth, we will build on our existing relationship and experiences together so that we are prepared for the next birth together.

My work is about support but it is so much more than that. It’s about love, compassion, trust, belonging and weaving our essences together to become familiar and part of each others community and life.

I invest my time, energy and resources in my clients as much as they do. Our relationship starts out transactional but ends up being committal and we bond and form community together.

This is my work: a gift of love!

Today we remember those babies that never made it into their parents hands, those that were born sleeping and the infant...
15/10/2025

Today we remember those babies that never made it into their parents hands, those that were born sleeping and the infants that left far too early.

I am 1 in 3. I hold in my heart my babies that did not come earthside as I hold all those mothers and parents that have trusted me into their space as we let go of dreams and hopes.

I am here to hold you, to hear you, to hope with you. Reach out to me if you need more support.

Join me in lighting a candle at 7pm (eest) to commemorate all the little ones that are not here with us.

This quote inspired me so many years ago when I started out as a doula. I have embraced this in my being as a doula. I t...
22/08/2025

This quote inspired me so many years ago when I started out as a doula.

I have embraced this in my being as a doula. I trust that each birth I’ve attended is shaping a better future.

Families that received support, gentler births, more connected and aware parents, more present and embodied children. This is the world that I’m seeing for my grandchildren.

My life’s work has been this. Thanks to a man that could see beyond!

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Birth services include: Pregnancy, birth and postpartum doula. Sacred Pregnancy Facilitation, Birth journey and Belly Binding. Birthing From Within Mentoring. Reiki healing and therapeutic massage.