22/09/2023
LET GO OF PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT READY.
🌬️It's not an attitude of arrogance or pride, but of congruity, you'll keep loving them but with another perspective, from another level of understanding, understanding and consciousness.
🌬️It's the hardest thing you'll have to do in your life, and it will also be the most important: stop being attached to those who aren't ready to love you.
🌬️Stop having difficult conversations with people who don't want to change.
Stop showing up for people who are indifferent to your presence.
Stop giving your love and energy to people who aren’t ready to love you.
🌬️ I know that your instinct is to do everything you can to earn the good thanks from everyone you can, but it's also impulse that will steal your time, your energy and your sanity.
🌬️When you start showing up in your life completely and completely, with joy, interest and commitment, not everyone is going to be ready to find you there.
That doesn't mean you have to change who you are. It means you have to distance yourself from people who aren't ready to love you.
🌬️If you’re excluded, subtly insulted, forgotten or easily ignored by the people you spend the majority of your time with, you’re not doing yourself a favor by continuing to offer them your energy and life.
The truth is, you're not for everyone, and everyone isn't for you. That's what makes it so special when you meet the few people with whom you have a genuine friendship, love or relationship: you'll know how precious it is because you've experienced what it isn't.
🌬️But the more time you spend trying to force someone to love you when they can't, the longer you will be depriving yourself of that same connection. It's waiting for you. There are billions of people on this planet, and many of them are going to meet you on their level, with the vibration of where they are, connect with where they are going.
🌬️But the longer you stay, entangled into the familiarity of people who use you as a pillow, a background option, a therapist and a strategist for their emotional work, the longer you stay out of the community you long for.
🌬️Maybe if you stop showing up, you'll be less loved.
Maybe they forget you completely.
Maybe if you stop trying, the relationship will end.
🌬️Maybe if you stop texting, your phone will stay dark for days and weeks.
Maybe if you stop loving someone, the love between you will dissolve.
That doesn't mean you ruined a relationship. It means that the only thing that sustained a relationship was the energy that you and only you put into it. That's not love. Now that's attachment.
🌬️The most precious and important thing you have in your life is your energy. It's not your time that's limited, it's your energy. What you give every day is what will create more and more in your life. What you give your time to, is what will define your existence.
When you realize this, you'll start to understand why you're so anxious when you spend time with people who don't bring you in, and in jobs or places or cities that don't suit you.
🌬️You will start to realize that the most important thing you can do for your life, for yourself and for everyone you know is to protect your energy more fiercely than anything else.
Make your life a safe haven where only people who can care, listen and connect are allowed.
🌬️You are not responsible for saving people. You're not responsible for convincing them they want to be saved.
🌬️ It's not your job to appear for people and hand over your life to them, little by little, moment by moment, because you pity them, because you feel bad, because you "should", because you are obliged to, because at the root of all this, you're afraid they won't return the favor.
🌬️It is your job to realize that you are the master or mistress of your destiny, and that you are accepting the love you think you deserve.
Decide that you deserve real friendship, true commitment and complete love with people who are healthy and prosperous.
So wait in the dark, just for a moment. And watch how quickly everything begins to change.
Credits to of Witches & Mensajes de las brujas
