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The Feminist Therapist

My name is Chloe, I'm an accredited Psychotherapist, Coach & Reiki Master healer. And this what I desire for you. It's your birthright

I have 8+ years of training in psychology, self development and spiritual healing behind me. For a big portion of my life as a woman I was stuck in survival and trauma, going from one therapist to another, one life crisis to another. After going through a Kundalini Awakening I discovered trauma healing which so far have helped me heal cptsd, anxiety disorder & paranoia, body dysmorphia, an eating disorder, depression, s*x addiction & toxic relationship addiction. This enabled me to manifest a new life for myself filled with love, partnership, unconditional love and most importantly FREEDOM to be ME without all my mental health issues holding me back. No matter how stuck you feel, there is a way out towards happiness and free self expression. Towards the courage of setting your boundaries and cutting off toxic relationships.

12/10/2025

Dark psychology of the zodiac signs - welcome Scorpio season ♏✨

Make sure to check your rising, moon, Venus and mars signs too to get a more thorough view of your personality.

09/10/2025

Life is either a journey of constant rebirths or a fight for control and against change.

We all have been wired in this society to be extremely psychorigid to the point sometimes it can be very painful to actually surrender and flow with life, let expansion take place.

We'll fight against it even and perceive it as a threat instead of embracing change and expansion which are the only constant in life.

Expansion requires letting go of what we know, beliefs and be willing to let things unfold, feel, experience without judgement or rejection.

Be willing to step in the unknown, letting go of our own judgements and certain belief systems.

Because stepping in your authentic self and blossoming into her isn't comfortable, it never is.

It's an amazing experience but it also comes with its sets of challenges like watching our life unfold into something we've never seen before, different that what we thought we wanted, speaking our truth and hearts and being brave, overcoming our own judgements and resistance etc...

And it's human to resist the unknown and expansion especially in our society.

It's human to try to hold onto things that feel familiar and safe, being afraid of the chaos inside of us, the turmoil, the discomfort, the change and wanting to control it, make it stop or push it away.

Yet only through fully embracing change and facing our inner storm, our emotions, the discomfort can we fully blossom into our powerful selves and purpose.

Be led by love and walk in purpose.

Which in return leads to contributing to the creation of better world.

You're strong enough to let it all go goddess, let yourself die and rise back up like a phoenix 🐦‍🔥 you ARE the phoenix 🔥 never forget that.

23/09/2025

It's not partnership that you want or your relationship to change

But liberation from the weight of your traumas.

and because you're too scared to explore, you find distractions to focus on whether that is the lack of partnership or the abusive/avoidant partner you chose that drains your energy.

I used to live like this myself. And it's not about lazyness because the fear is real and it's human to be scared of the unknown.

But the thing is, living like this running away from ourselves and creating more pain (because that's what happens) is not living and keeps us stuck in a reality filled with pain.

And you deserve better, we all do.

Everyone deserves a life filled with happiness and love.

But are you willing to face it all though ?

Let go of your comfort zone and safety bubble where you can control the narrative and outcome. Where you're unhappy but at least you feel in control.

And you know, creating a life that doesn't move you much and with known cycles that repeat themselves to feel in control is not really truly being in your power.

It's a very fragile type of way of building a life actually bc there is nothing actually solid enough to last or blossom.

And then at one point you're left with the last option to cope : blaming the state of your life on external circumstances, your partner, people and/or your childhood etc...

Maybe even bashing also others to feel better because ultimately you feel powerless and stuck.

I've been there.

And I really had to take a good look at myself at some point in my life because I was spiralling down.

I was the one responsible for the state of my life, the partners I chose, the people I allowed to take advantage of me over and over again and the energy I was putting out.

No one was holding a gun to my head, I wasn't a defenseless child anymore.

I was making those choices.

It's when I understood I had the power to face myself and heal, make different choices that my life and I started to change into a happier and more empowered version.

A version that allows me today to welcome each wave of growth with open arms instead of running away.

20/09/2025

It's not easy to look at ourselves, sometimes it's confusing even, realizing there are blind spots we are unaware off. But it's worth diving and exploring fully because there lies our liberation ✨

18/09/2025

Psychological rigidity is what traps us and prevent us from experiencing happiness and love.

Psychological rigidity stems from a nervous system conditioned in chaos and is a coping mecanism of a deep feeling of insecurity in the world due to a disconnect from oneness.

It's a lack of connexion with life force energy and source.

In result of that we attached ourselves to misaligned beliefs and ways of living that arent supporting our expansion but make us feel safe and help us cope with this deep insecurity.

We'll call it common sense even because it will feel true to us whilst mistaking the feeling of safety and comfort for the feeling of truth.

This is why also we're vulnerable to being manipulated, and easily pit against each other.

In reality, real truth feels uncomfortable and pushes us to grow. Truth is never comfortable.

It makes us face uncomfortable feelings and ourselves.

It asks us to let go of control, trauma, trust the unknown and have blind faith. Asks us to be brave and trust that things will fall into harmony and we will experience harmony.

That's how we used to live and are meant to live.

In surrender.

That's where living in harmony with nature and alignement with love starts.

How I know this ? Because my psychological rigidity used to tell me it wasn't safe to explore my traumas and wounds.

It told me I was better off avoiding intimacy and vulnerability.

It also told me that the only true love was conditional and that my arrogance was a sign of ambition and intelligence.

It made me believe chasing money was empowering and abundance lied in wealth.

And finally that I was powerless and had to fight in this world if I wanted to regain and remain in my power.

16/09/2025

What team are you on ?

Check also your rising, moon, Venus (partner) and Mars (s*xual partner) signs for a more thorough overview.

16/09/2025

Facing and healing trauma can be challenging, especially recognizing it can be a tough one but I can assure you once you take accountability and start facing it, that's when you life starts to change.

09/09/2025

You're that woman 👑💅🏼

You're that sensual and magnetic being.

You were born this way, you just went through difficult experiences that disconnected you from HER.

And you can retrieve her.

You're not meant to act like a little fan girl waiting to be picked, you're meant to act like the prize.

And not in an arrogant or performative way but in an embodied way.

You're meant to be confident, have boundaries and feel worthy of being loved, fought for.

You're meant to have standards and walk away from abuse or disrespect and spaces where you are not valued.

You're meant to feel beautiful and not feel threatened by other women's beauty.

You're meant to perceive yourself as beautiful and gorgeous, and feel desire towards yourself.

It's not narcissism, it's the beauty of our experience as women.

And once we process the wounds in the way of that, that's when we can finally embrace ourselves fully as well as the richness of life.

08/09/2025

True love doesn't require you to shrink yourself, stay quiet in the face of disrespect or avoid expressing yourself fully.

Life isn't about settling down with a partner but discovering and expressing your true authentic self and following your soul's calling.

Romantic love is meant to be part of your support system not the center of your life.

07/09/2025

Intimacy isn’t about s£x.

S£x is just a component of intimacy.

Oftentimes, when we crave s£x, we actually desire all the components of intimacy which are :

Emotional closeness and connexion
Chemistry
Affection and touch

S£x is really a bonus, and natural response to feeling connected with each other.

Pleasure can be fuelled by emotional closeness, connexion, chemistry or affection/touch alone.

S£x is an authentic communion with nature with a partner.

Just like self pleasuring, making love to ourselves is loving our bodies and celebrating them.

On another hand CRAVING s£x or pleasure is also a symptom of a disconnect with self, our emotions and our body due to exhaustion or trauma which in return makes us feel disconnected with life force in the search for a dopamine hit.

S£x isn’t meant to be craved and the physical desire we feel for someone is oftentimes also the desire for a multitude of experiences that are part of creating intimacy.

In this day and age we are more than ever confused as human beings because of trauma and exhaustion which is in my opinion what we should be focusing on overcoming.

As this is what will bring us back to harmony with Nature and creation.

What are your thoughts ? 💭

*xualempowerment

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