
18/08/2025
They say running is meant to get the blood pumping to your muscles. And it does, it really does. And I love running, honestly, I just love it. Except for the time when I’m actually running. Those 30-ish minutes a day is spent questioning all my life choices. My shoes. My sanity. And why on earth I ever thought “fit and healthy” was a good idea.
Saturday’s run was no exception. The sun was blazing, my legs were like lead, and by the end I looked like a burst tomato and sounded like a wheezy sea lion. But, I did it and that post-run glow is a real thing. Almost worth the mid-run meltdown.
Just after I stopped, I noticed a man staring. Really staring. Mortified, I braced for judgment. But as I got closer, he simply asked if I was okay. No judgment. Just kindness. Turns out my focused runner face looks very similar to an about to keel over face.
And it reminded me: not all muscles are physical. Confidence is a muscle. Compassion is too. The more we use them, the stronger they grow.
So here’s your nudge: pick a muscle to flex today. Maybe it’s confidence in your abilities, bravery to try something new, or kindness—towards yourself or someone else. Smile at a stranger, cheer someone on, or simply give yourself credit for showing up, sweat and all.