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🧠 One Habit That Builds Self-Awareness & Emotional Strength👉 Label your emotions as they arise.Instead of brushing off h...
20/07/2025

🧠 One Habit That Builds Self-Awareness & Emotional Strength
👉 Label your emotions as they arise.

Instead of brushing off how you feel, pause and name it.
📌 “I’m feeling overwhelmed.”
📌 “This is frustration.”
📌 “That hurt—that’s disappointment.”

Why it matters:
1️⃣ Increases Self-Awareness
Naming your emotions helps you understand what’s really going on inside.

2️⃣ Reduces Emotional Intensity
Labeling feelings calms the brain and gives you perspective.

3️⃣ Boosts Emotional Regulation
When you name it, you can manage it—rather than react impulsively.

4️⃣ Enhances Communication
You express yourself more clearly, resolve conflict better, and connect more deeply.

5️⃣ Supports Mental Health
Regular check-ins help you catch patterns, triggers, or distress early.

💡 Try this for one day:
Every time you feel something strong, pause and name it.
You might be surprised how much clarity and calm it brings.

🎯 Emotions drive behavior. When we can name them, we’re better equipped to manage them.

You can’t pour from an empty cup. A person can only give what they have.If someone responds angrily, it’s because their ...
12/07/2025

You can’t pour from an empty cup. A person can only give what they have.

If someone responds angrily, it’s because their “emotional bank” of positive emotions is empty.

Negative emotions (anger, hurt, sadness ..) cloud the mind. In such moments, there’s no point in trying to explain anything — especially if those emotions start to affect you too.

In that case, the best thing is to pause and return to the conversation later.

When you do come back to the conversation — try to understand the person first.

🧭 As Stephen Covey said: 👉 “Seek first to understand, then to be understood.”
🎧 Listen to the person. Feel what they are going through. For example:
🗣️ “I can see that you’re really angry about ###.”

Only when a person feels understood and safe can we start to speak about ourselves.
And often — we don’t even need to. A true heart-to-heart connection has already taken place. ❤️

From experience — that’s usually enough. In an open, honest conversation, a deep connection is formed. Then understanding naturally comes, and conflicts tend to resolve on their own.

With ❤️ Ausra

🧠✨ "What we can name – we can begin to understand. And what we understand – we can begin to change."It’s often more comf...
15/06/2025

🧠✨ "What we can name – we can begin to understand. And what we understand – we can begin to change."

It’s often more comfortable to stay where we are and simply adapt.
But the Creator didn’t make a fish so it would not swim.
You were made to bloom, not to fade.

If you constantly feel the need to adjust or give up parts of yourself just to fit in –
Pause.
Look within.
Face the issue eye to eye.

🖊️ Try this exercise:
Take a sheet of paper and write down whatever comes to your mind – without judgment.
If your mind resists, gently tell yourself:

“Right now, I don’t need to solve anything or take action.
I just need to name what’s there.”

When peace arrives and the words stop – read what you wrote.
You may discover answers you've been looking for all along.

🌟 You don’t have to do this alone.
💬 Tap ❤️ and comment “1” if you’d like a free 30-minute consultation with me.

With love,
Ausra



🌟 "By caring about the happiness of others, we find our own." – PlatoWe can only be truly happy when we realize ourselve...
15/06/2025

🌟 "By caring about the happiness of others, we find our own." – Plato

We can only be truly happy when we realize ourselves fully.
And that happens when we align our talents and desires to help others.

💫 Serving others isn’t about losing ourselves—
it’s about discovering who we truly are.

🧭 Real purpose lies in connection
💡 Real joy comes from contribution
❤️ Real fulfilment begins with compassion

Do you always manage to tell your child how much you love them? How precious they are? How you envision their future? Wh...
09/01/2025

Do you always manage to tell your child how much you love them? How precious they are? How you envision their future? What inspires you about them? What captivates you?

Probably not always. Daily routines can get in the way. Sometimes it’s hard to express everything we feel through words or actions—especially when we’re caught up in the busyness of life.

Here’s an idea: Write them a letter. ✍️
Even if your child can’t read yet, you can still write to them. You could even send it in the mail! Imagine their excitement when you tell them, “The mailman brought you a letter!”

Take the time to sit down, choose a beautiful piece of paper, maybe even draw something special. Pour your heart out in words. Say all the things you don’t always manage to say during the daily rush.

And it’s not just for kids—writing a heartfelt letter to an adult loved one works wonders, too. If you feel shy about giving it in person, send it by mail. The key is for the letter to come from your heart. Let love flow freely.

If you need a special occasion, consider Valentine’s Day, a birthday, or simply a moment that feels right. What’s important is to write sincerely and without expectations.

You might not get the reaction you hope for immediately—and that’s okay. What matters is that your love flows where it’s needed. It will cleanse and nurture both your heart and theirs, strengthening your bond over time.

Love is powerful—it creates connection, heals, and deepens relationships. Start today. 💌

It's hard to love everyone, but how easy it is to live when you love. - Tamriko Amonashvili
07/01/2025

It's hard to love everyone, but how easy it is to live when you love. - Tamriko Amonashvili

The Key Rule for a Happy Life 💖In life, there should be one guiding principle: Love everyone! 🌍As Tamriko Amonashvili wi...
06/01/2025

The Key Rule for a Happy Life 💖

In life, there should be one guiding principle: Love everyone! 🌍

As Tamriko Amonashvili wisely says:

"It's hard to love everyone, but how easy it is to live when you love!" 💫

When we love, we forgive, accept, create, and cherish every moment. Life becomes lighter, brighter, and more meaningful. 🌟

Let’s choose love—always. ❤

🌟 Responsibility is my response to life, which grants harmony and happiness. 🌿The response to life is a conscious choice...
25/11/2024

🌟 Responsibility is my response to life, which grants harmony and happiness. 🌿

The response to life is a conscious choice—to act in ways that uplift rather than harm, bringing joy and harmony to ourselves and those around us. ✨

When facing challenges, pause and ask:

❓ How am I responding to receive this reaction?
💖 Is my response filled with love and gratitude?
🤝 Does it strengthen connections or create division?
✅ Am I keeping my promises?
Taking conscious responsibility is the key to living a fulfilling, harmonious life. 🌈

🤔 What to Do When Children Lie? 🤔Let’s face it—kids lie sometimes. But why? Often, it’s not about defiance but fear: fea...
17/11/2024

🤔 What to Do When Children Lie? 🤔

Let’s face it—kids lie sometimes. But why? Often, it’s not about defiance but fear: fear of consequences, judgment, or feeling unworthy of love. Lying becomes a mask to feel safe and maintain their sense of being “good.” So, how can parents respond effectively? 💡

Key Tips for Parents

💛 Understand the Why:
Lying usually stems from insecurity or unmet needs—not malice. Kids are learning and growing, which means mistakes are part of the process.

💛 See the Lesson:
A lie can reveal your child’s fears or topics they feel unsafe discussing. Use this as an opportunity to strengthen your connection and explore sensitive issues.

💛 Create Safe Conversations:
Foster open communication by:
🎥 Watching a movie together and asking, “What would you do in this situation?”
🙌 Sharing your own childhood mistakes to normalize imperfection.

💖 Focus on Connection Over Perfection
Rules matter, but relationships matter more. Trust and connection are harder to rebuild than broken rules.

👩‍👧 Example:
Your child eats a cookie before dinner and lies about it.
💡 Say calmly, “I feel upset when I don’t hear the truth.”
💡 Later, ask in a relaxed moment, “Did you enjoy the cookie? What made it hard to wait?”
💡 Share your own experience to show understanding and build trust.

Why It Works
🌱 Reduces fear and creates safety.
🌱 Builds trust by modeling empathy.
🌱 Encourages honesty through connection.

Remember: Parenting is about balancing rules with a loving bond. Choose the relationship first—it’s the foundation for trust, growth, and respect. 💖

What’s your go-to strategy when your kids fib? Let’s share and support each other in the comments! 👇

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.—Marcel Prous...
29/08/2024

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.
—Marcel Proust

🍎🌟 Embracing Imperfection: Finding the Good in Everyone 🌟🍎Would you throw away an entire apple just because it has a sma...
08/08/2024

🍎🌟 Embracing Imperfection: Finding the Good in Everyone 🌟🍎

Would you throw away an entire apple just because it has a small spot or a little worm nibble? Of course not! We simply cut off that part and enjoy the rest of the delicious fruit. The same perspective can be applied to how we view people.

In moments of conflict, it's easy to focus on the flaws, mistakes, imperfections, and disagreements, as if the whole person is just "one big blemish." But what if we assumed that, besides the blemish, there is also a healthy part of the personality? What if we looked for at least one good quality in a person?

When you find one good quality, a revolution happens in your mind. Your perspective changes because now, instead of just one big black spot, there is room for a healthy part. Then it becomes easier for you to find a second and third good quality in the person until you see the whole, true picture.

Only when you see the whole person as a healthy, beautiful apple with a small blemish, can you start solving the problem, which will be much easier to deal with.

Remember, we find what we are looking for. By searching for the good, we create a more harmonious and understanding world. Let's appreciate the whole person, just like we enjoy the whole apple. 🍏❤️

Just as plants need sun, water, and good soil to thrive, people need love, work, and a connection to something larger.
17/07/2024

Just as plants need sun, water, and good soil to thrive, people need love, work, and a connection to something larger.

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