28/06/2025
We all want a calmer, lighter, more connected home. And one of the quickest ways to shift the mood is to shift the way we speak.
Turn the criticism into a compliment. Correct with connection.
Instead of: “You’re so messy!”
Try: “You’re such a creative whirlwind - I love that about you. Let’s find a way to keep your space clear so your ideas don’t get lost.”
Instead of: “You never listen!”
Try: “You’re really focused right now — can I help you pause and take this in?”
Instead of: “Stop whining!”
Try: “I hear you’re upset. Can you tell me what you need in a calm voice?”
And when YOU make a mistake?
Speak to yourself the same way.
“I messed that up, but l’m still learning. I care enough to do better.”
Words are powerful. When we use them to lift up instead of tear down, everything shifts. ❤️
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