Samantha Chater Therapy

18/04/2026

Thank you to .kritika_naturalhealth for a most wonderful Spring reset today .wellbeinghub The yoga, full body energy reset, sound bath and amazing Ayurveda snacks = 3 hours of bliss. Can’t wait for the next one!

18/04/2026

If you can, take time to recharge this weekend 💜

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18/04/2026

Lovely to be part of Thrive Wellbeing Hub 💙

I offer counselling and hypnotherapy for adults from Thrive Wellbeing Hub.

I support adults in midlife who may be feeling lost, stuck or unsure of themselves as life changes around them.

People come to me with anxiety, loss, relationship struggles, trauma, menopause, and ADHD-related challenges. I offer a calm, supportive space to talk openly and begin to feel more like yourself again.

I offer a free 20-minute no obligation consultation.

Feel free to get in touch if you’d like to find out more or book a chat.

Therapy isn’t just for crisis moments—it’s a space to understand yourself, build healthier patterns, and grow into the life you want. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, burnout, boundaries, or grief, you don’t have to do it alone.

Support, clarity, and real change start with a conversation.

01/04/2026

Anxiety is often talked about in terms of symptoms such as racing thoughts, panic, overthinking, feeling constantly on edge.

But sometimes anxiety makes more sense when we look beneath the surface.

From a trauma-informed perspective, anxiety can be understood as a protective response. Your mind and body may have learnt to stay alert because, at some point, that helped you cope.

So rather than asking “What’s wrong with me?” a kinder question can be, “What have I been through, and how has my nervous system adapted?”

When anxiety is understood in this way, it can begin to feel less shameful and less confusing. Counselling can help you make sense of those patterns, feel safer in your body, and find healthier ways of coping.

If anxiety is feeling hard to carry at the moment, you’re welcome to get in touch for a free 20-min consultation. Link in bio.





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20/03/2026

Happiness can feel complicated when you’re grieving.

Today, on International Day of Happiness, we're not talking about loud joy or forced smiles. 'Glimmers' are tiny moments of warmth, connection or calm that gently break through the heaviness.

A memory that makes you smile.
Sunlight on your face.
A message from someone who understands.

Glimmers don’t take away grief. They sit alongside it.

16/02/2026

People-pleasing usually starts as a way of staying safe. You learn to keep the peace, not make a fuss, anticipate other people’s needs and smooth things over before conflict appears. At some point, it probably helped.

Over time though, it can come at a cost. You say yes when you want to say no. You minimise your feelings. You feel responsible for how others feel, and carry guilt when you put yourself first, if you ever do.

Many people who struggle with people-pleasing don’t see themselves as anxious or overwhelmed. They just feel tired. Drained. A bit lost. And often unsure of who they are outside of what they do for others.

This isn’t a personality flaw. It’s a pattern that developed in response to your environment, relationships or expectations placed on you earlier in life.

Counselling can offer a space to gently explore where this pattern came from, what keeps it going, and how to begin setting boundaries without fear or guilt. Not by changing who you are but by helping you reconnect with your own needs and voice.

If this resonates, I’ve written more about people-pleasing and how counselling can help in a recent blog post. Link in comments.

13/02/2026

This is one of the most common questions people wonder about and the answer is no.

You don’t need to be in crisis to come to counselling. Many people seek support not because something dramatic has happened, but because life feels heavy, confusing, or out of balance.

You might be functioning on the outside but struggling on the inside. Feeling stuck, low, anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself. Going through a life change, a loss, or simply realising you can’t keep carrying everything alone.

Counselling isn’t about comparing your pain to anyone else’s or deciding whether it’s ‘bad enough’ If something is affecting your wellbeing, your sleep, your relationships, or how you feel about yourself, it matters.

Coming to counselling earlier, before things reach breaking point can actually be a gentler way of taking care of yourself.

You don’t need a label or a dramatic reason. If something in you is saying, I need some space to talk, that’s enough.

Counselling is for real life, as it is, not just emergencies.

06/02/2026

Why do we signpost to Samaritans? 💚

While we aim to connect you with the right counsellor, it’s important to be mindful that there may be times when you need immediate, 24/7 support. That’s where Samaritans can help.

Samaritans UK offer:

🤍 Confidential, non-judgemental emotional support

🕰️ 24/7 availability – day and night

👂 A safe space to talk and be listened to

💬 Support whether you’re in crisis or just need someone to talk to

How to contact Samaritans:

📞 Call 116 123 (free, UK & ROI)

✉️ Email jo@samaritans.org

🌐 Visit www.samaritans.org

You don’t have to face things alone. Support is always available. 💚

21/01/2026

People often ask if counselling can help with anxiety especially when your capacity to manage feels stretched thin.

I often support people who’ve spent years holding everything together for everyone else and suddenly realise they’ve run out of steam.

When life gets busy and you’re juggling work, family, caring roles, or big changes in your own body or identity, anxiety can creep up on you. You might feel on edge, overthinking things, or struggling to switch off, even when you’re exhausted.

In counselling, you get space to pause. We look at what’s been draining your capacity, the pressure you’ve been under, the expectations you’ve carried for so long, and the parts of you that have been pushed aside just to get through the day.

Together, we make sense of what’s going on underneath the anxiety and explore gentler, more realistic ways of managing things. Not by doing more, but by helping you feel calmer, clearer, and more able to cope.

If you’re feeling stretched beyond your limit, you’re not on your own and you don’t have to keep pushing through it.

Check out my latest blog post on anxiety

Discover how counselling for anxiety can help you understand anxiety, ease symptoms, and feel steadier in midlife. Support to help you manage anxiety.

15/01/2026

Deciding to come to counselling is rarely straightforward. Most people don’t avoid it because they don’t need support. They avoid it because of what it brings up.

Some worry they won’t know what to say, or that they’ll say too much. Others fear opening things up and not being able to cope with what comes out. There’s often a belief that it’s not bad enough yet or that they should be able to manage on their own.

For many, life is already full and hectic. Work, family, caring for others counselling can feel like one more thing to fit in, even though it’s often the very thing that could ease the load.

There can also be quiet shame. Thoughts like, other people have it worse or I should be stronger than this, stop people from reaching out, even when they’re exhausted from holding everything together.

Counselling isn’t about being broken or failing. It’s about having a space where you don’t have to cope alone, explain yourself, or keep going at all costs.

If any of this resonates, you don’t have to decide anything right now. You’re welcome to get in touch for a gentle, no-pressure chat to see whether counselling feels right for you.

04/01/2026

The first session is often the one people feel most unsure about. Not because it’s difficult but because it’s unfamiliar.

There’s no test, no pressure to know what to say, and no expectation that you’ll tell your whole life story.

We’ll go at your pace. You can share as much or as little as feels comfortable. Some people talk a lot, others take time to find their words. Both are completely okay.

I’ll also explain how counselling works, answer any questions you might have, and make sure you understand things like confidentiality and boundaries, so you know where you stand.

Most importantly, the first session is about seeing how it feels to sit together and talk.

Counselling works best when you feel safe and comfortable with the person you’re speaking to. There’s no obligation to continue if it doesn’t feel right.

Many people leave their first session often feeling lighter, not because everything is solved, but because they’ve finally had space to say things out loud.

If you’re feeling nervous about taking that first step, that’s very normal. You don’t have to have it all worked out just showing up is enough.

If you’re thinking about counselling and have questions, you’re welcome to get in touch.

02/01/2026

Around this time of year, there’s a lot of pressure to make New Year’s resolutions. Promises to do better, be better, change everything, often overnight. Some stick for a while, many don’t, and that can leave us feeling like we’ve failed before the year has really begun.

What if, instead of big resolutions, we focused on small, steady habits? The kind that support you rather than judge you.

One habit that can make a real difference is learning to be kinder to yourself. Not in a perfect way just in the moments you notice the self-criticism, the pushing through, or the feeling that you’re never quite doing enough.

Kindness towards yourself isn’t about lowering standards or giving up. It’s about recognising that you’re human, doing your best, and allowed to move at your own pace. Over time, that shift can change how you feel, how you cope, and how you show up in your life.

If you carry a lot of self-pressure, counselling can be a space to explore where that comes from and how to soften it. Small changes, practiced gently, can add up to something meaningful over the year ahead.