31/10/2025
From reaction to resonance: The power of co-regulation
Add an energetic layer with techniques you can practise at home.
Visualise a place where you feel safe, note the colours, any textures, sounds, smells or anything you can hear.
Focus on your breathing, try taking a slow calm breath in, to a count of 4, holding for 4, releasing for 4 and waiting for a count of 4 before your next breath. This technique known as 'Box-breathing' can help to reset your vagus nerve.
Rub 1 drop of vetiver or valerian essential oil (diluted in a carrier oil) onto your wrists, close your eyes and imagine roots growing from your feet into the earth. Imagine you and your dog surrounded by a soft golden light.
This isn’t 'woowoo', this is speaking to your nervous system and energetic alignment.
And the more consistently you show up regulated, the more your dog learns: 'We’re safe. I don’t need to guard. I can relax here'.
It’s a quiet transformation, and it starts with one breath. One moment. One choice to come back to calm.
You’re doing it and your dog is feeling it. Keep going, keeping letting your heart lead you. You're both learning how to be each other’s safe place.