Jangley Jangley

08/09/2023

Learn to stop explaining why you don't deal with certain people anymore..They are always fully aware of what they did and the majority of the time they won't ask because they know!

06/09/2023

Understanding and overcoming fears is something I've worked on with not only myself but with others. I've learnt that none of us were born with fear, it is a result of our environment and reactions we have observed along the way. Some fears are valid and embedded deep to keep us safe others are totally irrational and come from an experience
which sorta sparked the fight or flight in us so each time we experience that thing again we go right back to fight or flight mode and flood the body with all sorts of chemicals (there is a whole lot to say about this that would take too long to type and read so forgive my brief explanation)
My irrational fear since an early age has been spiders. I was beyond terrified. One night as a child I even slept in the airing cupboard because there was a spider in my room and I couldn't sleep with it in there. Reality is there were probably a load more spiders in the airing cupboard but I didn't see those ones, I only saw the giant one in my room and it made me feel all kinds of ways that I now know was completely irrational.
I have spent a considerable amount of time getting closer to spiders over the past year. I can take little ones outside on my hand now and catch the bigger ones with paper and a glass without my guts dropping out and my heart beating like it's life or death situation. I observed myself and how my body was reacting to being so close to a fear and stopping before I pushed myself over the edge. It was a slow process and one I wanted to take my time with so I knew it wouldn't return. The key to move through the fear in my experience was acceptance.
I am still not quite ready to hold the big hairy ones but I do have a new roomie that I am happy to leave in the corner because it isn't affecting me and I have accepted it's there until it isn't.
I guess what I am trying to say is we all have fears and some are needed and some are needed to be gone to free up space within yourself.
Have any of us really stopped and explored why we have these fears and how much space they are taking up? Seeing a spider used to take over my whole being when in reality all it wanted was a small corner.

If you are struggling with managing fear or anxiety over anything at all .. my inbox is always open if you would like to explore being free of that.

08/08/2023

Hi I have been away a little while whilst I was visiting a poorly relative up country. I am going through all my messages today and will do my best to get back to you all asap.
Thank you for waiting for me xx

28/06/2023

I blinked and there are now 801 of you here. I guess in the world of big tech it's pretty small but to me it is amazing because I got to share in and remember your story.
Just out of Interest how many out of the 801 have already seen me? Drop a like or a comment below because it would be amazing to see just how many of your stories have helped to make my very own life story.

16/06/2023

Hey I know I've not posted in a while but as I've had quite a few more people join us here I just want to reiterate that I am always here behind the scenes but I do prefer to use my time to talk and sit with you all rather than post out content for likes and so on.
There's not much content here and I don't advertise but somehow never seem to be short of correspondence and this is how I like it to be..
Those who know me and have been to see me before know that I'm here for you afterwards too and always love hearing your updates. I appreciate we are moving into a digital world but I don't want to become just another "pick a card" site because that is not how the tools are traditionally used and I like to stick with my old ways because, well they ain't failed me yet. No offense to those who want to do things this way, each to their own I'm here just reminding people you won't find quizzes or those things here but if you are in a difficult space and need to find yourself or just get some clarity then you have arrived at a safe, personal, private and caring destination.
♥️

06/05/2023

As requested by a few of you...here is a little more information on what the lovely Jess has to offer xx

06/05/2023

Heading off here tomorrow to lighten the head space. It's been manic, I need to heal the healer. Pop over and show the page some love. I have been blessed to know the family personally for over a decade and think some of you may be interested in what can be found here....maybe ourselves.
https://www.facebook.com/nestandnurture.uk

Discover breathtaking views, unwind, reconnect with nature & indulge your joy in either exploring the local countryside or fine dining in the city.
Uniquely offering massage, yoga, theraoy and saunas on site.

24/03/2023

Morning ♥️🖤

22/03/2023

A lovely lady described an appointment with me as an MOT for the soul.
I love that expression because I really do care and as many of you know our connection doesn't end when the appointment does. You should all know by now but if you don't... I'm always here behind the scenes if you need a boost or a quick reminder that you got this!

20/03/2023

Dropped by to remind me it's the spring equinox. 😉

10/03/2023

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07/03/2023

Feeling the full moon blessings.
Thank you for all your amazing feedback. I couldn't do it without you!

07/03/2023

Last few appointments available for March. Drop me a message if you are wanting to book in ❤️✨

05/03/2023

"The brighter you shine the more shadows you cast"

How true is this. You can be down on your luck and some of those around you will offer the "ahh it will be ok".. Start achieving and doing well and here comes the "who does she think she is"
Know who you are....don't think! and remember if you see them throwing shade - point the way to the light. We got to stop bashing each other. It's not big headed to see yourself at the top of your game or being the best you can be at what you do. There are people who pay thousands in therapy just to like who they are so who is anyone else to try dim the light of those who already learnt to shine through the darkness. Only they know what they had to endure to get to where they are and they should be allowed to sit on their throne with pride.
If you are still on your journey to get there....keep going.

01/03/2023

It's been a busy few weeks in the Jangley realm. Thank you all for your continued support and amazing feedback. It's been an absolute pleasure to sit with those whom I have known for years and to also welcome new souls into the tribe.
Forever blessed that you trust me with your personal stories and I will never tire from seeing you all achieve what is your destiny. ❤️

27/01/2023

Seems like January has passed within the blink of an eye (unless you waiting for pay day then it seems 100 years since the last)
A majority of the people I am talking to describe a disconnected feeling and are seeking what is the next thing I must do?
My response to all of them is another question
Why do you feel you must be doing something other than what is already occurring?

May I be bold enough to ask that you take a look outside, at your surroundings. We are still in winter and although there are signs of life returning to the earth it's mostly still in its skeletal state, sleeping. It shall wake in spring and decorate the earth with life and colours so bold that our souls reawaken too.

Long before the calendars we use today were in play people would move with the seasons and with that came changes in surroundings and within themselves and an understanding of when things needed to be tended to and when things needed to be left to rest so they could recover - crop rotation is a good example here as in if you keep adding to something that's already over worked it will not produce the desired outcome.

Learn when it's time to lay Barron for a while even if life only affords you small pockets of time to do so. We have been forced into an existence that often puts us in conflict with the natural cycles of the seasons and it's only natural we end up feeling disconnected and burnt out. The burning ball in the sky is not burning hot enough over here and therefore we are lacking it's vital nutrients and we just had Christmas and ate a whole load of stuff that has us now feeling sluggish and then the anti climax or come down that is January it's bound to take a hold...if we let it.

My question again. Why do you feel that you must be doing something other than what is already occurring?
Are we too busy asking what should I be doing to see what we are already achieving?