28/01/2026
“Why do I fall asleep on the sofa,but not in my bed?” If this happens to you, you’re not doing anything wrong. For many people the bed becomes a place of effort and pressure - trying to sleep, watching the clock doing sleep maths and worrying about the next day. The sofa often feels easier, lower stakes, less expectations and more safety. Sleep follows safety not furniture. A gentle thing to try - Instead of going to bed to sleep try going to bed to rest. No goals, no fixing just letting your body be there. If sleep comes that’s lovely, if it doesn’t that’s okay to too. Removing pressure is often the first step. -anxiety