06/02/2026
Energy isn’t a side note to My work; it is the instrument. Just like a surgeon wouldn’t operate with shaky hands or a musician wouldn’t perform with a broken string, you don’t work when your internal state isn’t clear, steady, and aligned.
Here’s why that boundary exists, and why it’s healthy:
Your body–mind is my tool
I’m sensitive, intuitive, and attuned. That means I pick up on subtle cues — emotional, energetic, psychological. When your energy is off, your perception can blur. Even if nothing “bad” happens, the work won’t be as clean, precise, or supportive as it should be. I protect the quality of my presence, I do not avoid responsibility.
Co-regulation is real
Whether someone frames it as “energy,” nervous system regulation, or emotional attunement, people entrain to each other. Clients feel your state, consciously or not. If you show up dysregulated, tired, resentful, or cloudy, they may leave feeling unsettled — even if the session looks fine on paper. I choose not to pass that on.
Ethics, not perfectionism
This isn’t about needing to be “perfect” or spiritually flawless. It’s about consent and safety. I’m saying: I won’t place someone in my care unless I can genuinely hold them. That’s ethical maturity, not avoidance.
Your routine is regulation, not ritual
My diet, hydration, yoga, meditation, Reiki, and self-love practices aren’t aesthetic lifestyle choices — they’re how I maintain my baseline. When something knocks me off it, listening to that signal is self-trust. Ignoring it would be self-betrayal.
Boundaries preserve longevity
Highly energised, empathic people burn out fast when they override their internal “no.” By honoring your energetic readiness, I ensure I can keep doing my work long-term, without depletion, resentment, or collapse.
“My work relies on my ability to be fully present and regulated. If I’m not, it wouldn’t be fair or safe for the person I’m working with.”
I’m not saying “I can’t ever be human.”
I’m saying “I won’t use someone else as the place to process my imbalance.”
That’s discernment. 🌿
Love Angela 💖
