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The first months of motherhood can feel like a whirlwind....add in a heatwave and it adds a new dimension to summer.As a...
25/05/2026

The first months of motherhood can feel like a whirlwind....add in a heatwave and it adds a new dimension to summer.

As a mum whose first son was born at the start of a 3 month heatwave and Infant sleep coach, I wanted to share with you my top 5 tips to help keep you little one stay cool in the summer, leading on from my night dressing post (see previous post for reference);

1️⃣ Blackout Curtains/ Blinds: Keep the sun out and the room cooler by using blackout curtains during the day. This helps maintain a cool sleeping environment.

2️⃣ Baths aren’t just for evening bath time. If you find your baby is irritable from the heat, a cool bath, maybe before a nap is an ideal way for them to cool down, and a lovely sensory activity too

3️⃣ . I must have tried 3 or 4 different sun shade options and spent ££ in doing so before I discovered the . It covers the whole pram, so no UV rays can get in, it acts as a shield from bugs, such as wasps, and it attaches easily so if it’s a windy day you don’t need to keep adjusting (unlike parasols)!

4️⃣ Hydration: Ensure your baby stays hydrated. If breastfeeding you may notice an increase in your little ones feeding habits, and if bottle feeding, your baby may need feeds more frequently. For older children, stay hydrated through foods as well as liquids such as cucumber and watermelon, a fav in the summer!

5️⃣ Keep rooms cool, by opening windows, and using fans to keep the room cool, allowing air to circulate. Combine with black out curtains / blinds ensuring the fan is out of your babies reach.

What tips worked for you and your families to help keep cool in the summer?

l’d love for you to share them below! Please share this with anyone who would find it useful!

Thanks, Lynsey

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✨Summer days…. But the parent version!Summer is a gorgeous time of year, however I can resonate with so many new mums an...
25/05/2026

✨Summer days…. But the parent version!

Summer is a gorgeous time of year, however I can resonate with so many new mums and dads who are in those first few hazy weeks and months of parenthood, and trying to get their head round so much, including togs, vests and temperatures!

To make this easier to digest please see my guide on how to dress your baby all year through.

Please like and save if you found it useful

💜 Appreciate all shares and please tag anyone else who you know would find this useful too!!

If you would like to chat more about personalised sleep support, comment or DM sleep for more info!

Thanks, Lynsey x

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22/05/2026

‘Lynsey, how early should my babies bedtime be?’

As a parent your desperate to figure the optimal time for bed, especially when your little one’s sleep matures (around 9-14 weeks) and things start to shift.

Listen in for some top tips on how to judge what’s best for your little one.

Are you at the point where you need dedicated sleep support? Are you craving someone to help you take the first right steps to more sleep, more energy and more predictability? If so, DM or comment YES and I’ll be in touch.

Thanks, Lynsey x

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21/05/2026

‘Lynsey, how do I stop early morning wakings?’

Answering another popular question that so many parents come to me with!

Watch and follow along as I dive into this topic!

If you are looking for more support and guidance to get more energy, predictibility and sleep then DM or comment SLEEP and I’ll be in touch!

Thanks, Lynsey x

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21/05/2026

‘Lynsey, how do I transition to one nap per day?’

Nap transitions can feel daunting as can any change, however watch along for some top tips to make going from 2 to 1 more manageable!

Share and tag any mum friends who will find
this useful!

If you would love further support with sleep and labour education please DM or comment
HELLO and I’ll be in touch!

Thanks, Lynsey x

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19/05/2026

The truth about self settling 💜

It’s not a switch you can flick overnight. It takes time, patience and consistency, and your little one needs to feel safe and supported every step of the way.

No rushing. No leaving them to figure it out alone. Just calm, consistent support 💜

Save this as a reminder if the topic of SS comes up, and be sure to share with someone you know needs to hear it too!

Looking for more directed support? DM or comment SLEEP and I’ll be in touch!

Thanks, Lynsey

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15/05/2026

Birth plans vs Birth preferences!

If you are at the stage of pregnancy where the topic of birth plans has came up, please make the important swap preferences not plans?

WHY?

The purpose of a birth preference is to work through each of the different birth scenarios and situations which may arise, and outline your preferences.

Going through each scenario allows your brain to feel knowledgeable and empowered that you have through this through beforehand, and if this situation arose you or likely your birth partner are in a place of control to communicate your decisions.

This keeps your nervous system calm which will help support your birth!

Save this for when your considering your birth preferences, and if you would like a birth preference template comment BIRTH and I’ll send that over!

Thanks, Lynsey x

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14/05/2026

‘It’s my fault, I’ve created bad sleep habits’

I’ve spoke to so many parents and on nearly every discovery call I hear this phrase!

I am here to remind you that you do what you need to, to survive in that moment!

Please do NOT waster your precious precious energy on this thought anymore.

Habits can be unwound and new habits can be built so FOCUS on this and looking forward, not what’s behind you 💜

Save this for when you need this mental reminder!

If you would love to learn how I support families, comment or DM SLEEP and I’ll get in touch!

Thanks, Lynsey x

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Wake windows can be SUCH a helpful tool when it comes to understanding your little one’s sleep… but they should never fe...
13/05/2026

Wake windows can be SUCH a helpful tool when it comes to understanding your little one’s sleep… but they should never feel like a strict timetable

I wanted to share this as a GUIDE, not a regimented routine.

One of the biggest things I see online is parents becoming stressed because their baby isn’t matching “perfect” wake windows, when actually their little one is sleeping and functioning really well for their age and stage!

Please remember:
✨ Babies of the same age can have varying sleep needs
✨ Some need slightly more sleep
✨ Some need slightly less
✨ Averages are exactly that… averages

If your baby is sleeping well, napping well and generally content, there is absolutely no need to force change just to fit a chart.

If sleep is proving difficult right now, whether it’s with frequent wakes, short naps, bedtime battles or over-tiredness, then wake windows are a good base to start from.

Before making changes, I always recommend taking a sleep diary for a few days first:
💤 Nap times
💤 Nap lengths
💤 Bedtime
💤 Night wakes

This helps you spot patterns before making tweaks based on your baby’s age and sleep needs.

Save this for later if wake windows are something you’ve been trying to figure out.

Thanks, Lynsey x

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One of the most common questions I get asked is:“How much sleep does my baby need??” And while average sleep needs can b...
12/05/2026

One of the most common questions I get asked is:

“How much sleep does my baby need??”

And while average sleep needs can be really helpful, I always want parents to remember this first:

✨ Your baby is not a robot
✨ Sleep needs can vary hugely between babies of the same age
✨ Averages are guidance, not regimented

I see so many parents panic because their little one isn’t matching a chart perfectly, when actually their baby is happy, developing well and sleeping completely appropriately for THEM 💜

That said, understanding average sleep needs can be incredibly helpful when sleep starts to feel difficult.

Things like:
💤 bedtime battles
💤 frequent night waking
💤 short naps
💤 early rising
💤 split nights

Can SOMETIMES be linked to your little one’s day sleep needing tweaked.

The key is looking at the FULL picture, not just one number on a chart.

If sleep is feeling challenging right now, these averages can be a really useful starting point.

Save this post for later if sleep is something you’re currently navigating

Thanks, Lynsey x

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11/05/2026

‘Lynsey, why does everyone else’s baby sleep except mine?’

I can’t tell you how many times I had this thought as a FTM with a baby whose sleep continually got worse as he got older (a life before being a sleep coach)!

Watch and listen to what I’d go back and tell myself!

If you are in this place, and are at the point of needing further support, DM or comment ‘NOW’ and I’ll be in touch to chat.

Thanks, Lynsey x

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