Cara Mason - Vaginismus-Free

29/08/2025

Don't waste another moment on vaginismus treatments that are not working for you!

I know how frustrating and disheartening it is to spend time, effort and money on treatments (eg, dilators or pelvic floor exercises) that are not giving you real results.

My video will tell you what the two essential steps are to beating vaginismus.

The next 18 minutes might just change everything for you!

Don't waste another moment on vaginismus treatments that are not working for you! I know how frustrating and disheartening it is to spend time, effort and mo...

28/07/2025

After 14 years of living with vaginismus, Dr. Ruchi, a medical doctor and hypnotherapist, finally found freedom through the Vaginismus-Free Programme.

In this heartfelt and honest testimonial, she shares:

✔️ Why past sexual abuse didn’t cause her vaginismus
✔️ How surgery failed — and what actually worked
✔️ Why she recommends it to every woman she meets

💬 “I had lost all hope. If I can do this, so can you.”

Watch her inspiring story — and find out what’s possible for you, too.

👉 Watch here:

How I Overcame Vaginismus After 14 Years – Dr. Ruchi’s StoryAfter 14 years of living with vaginismus, Dr. Ruchi — a medical doctor and hypnotherapist — final...

24/03/2025

Lovely testimonial from Doctor Kate who recommends the Vaginismus-Free Programme to her patients

Doctor Kate is so glad to have Vaginismus-Free to refer her patients with Vaginismus to. More details on this life-changing Programme at www.Vaginismus-Free

26/02/2025

Here's a selection of women who completely resolved their vaginismus in just weeks with the Vaginismus-Free Programme (formerly 'Cure your Vaginismus and Thrive')

Want to cure your vaginismus too? Go to www.vaginismus-free.com
https://youtu.be/wiSg3Cu-jzg

Vaginismus can be very isolating and so I hope you'll be inspired by these brave women! They share their stories about overcoming vaginismus in just weeks wi...

17/02/2025

A crucial question: Is Vaginismus Psychological??..and what the women who've beaten it say...

The most crucial thing that I want you to know about vaginismus (other than the fact that it can be treated) is that there is a HUGE psychological element to it.

Although the end-product of vaginismus is physical (the pain, the 'wall', etc.), the causes of it are psychological and emotional. And don't worry, it's nothing scary or deep-rooted!!

One tell-tale sign that your mindset isn’t where it needs to be, is that your progress with pe*******on exercises will be exceptionally slow and/or inconsistent: your pelvic floor muscles might be exercised to Olympic standard strengths, but still you feel you're nowhere near the finish line. Or you’re exasperated at even the thought of using your dilators.

The massive impact that our mindset plays in vaginismus is something that comes as a surprise to many women - and you may struggle to believe it too - after all, vaginismus SEEMS so physical!

However, recognising the psychological aspect is usually the first step towards overcoming it.

The reality is that vaginismus is driven by a variety of factors such as a disconnection or alienation from the va**na. Plus, anxiety and fear play a part: fear of the unknown, fear of failure, and fear of pain itself.

Continue reading...
https://vaginismus-treatment.co.uk/is-vaginismus-psychological/

22/01/2025

Let’s face it: using dilators can often be clinical and frustrating, and you might not feel like skipping into the bedroom excitedly at the thought of using them!

Perhaps even just looking at the largest one is enough to make your eyes water. Or maybe they've been consigned to the back of your wardrobe to gather dust...

Here are 10 actionable tips to make dilator use not only more tolerable but actually something you can feel good and proud about…

10 very effective tips for using va**nal dilators for vaginismus that every woman should know! Overcome pain and gain confidence with dilators

03/01/2025

Let’s face it: using dilators can often be clinical and frustrating, and you might not feel like skipping into the bedroom excitedly at the thought of using them!

Perhaps even just looking at the largest one is enough to make your eyes water. Or maybe they've been consigned to the back of your wardrobe to gather dust...

You might find your plans to use your dilator suddenly sabotaged by any other urgent tasks you need to do, such as rearranging the apps on your phone or alphabetising your spice rack…

But let’s flip the script on this. Using dilators can be an empowering step toward taking control of how your body responds, and with the right approach, it doesn’t have to feel like a chore to be avoided.

Here are 10 actionable tips to make dilator use not only more tolerable but actually something you can feel good and proud about…

👉🏼 1. Get comfortable with imperfection

Nobody’s perfect and the pathway to overcoming vaginismus is rarely linear. Some days it’ll be easy, and other days it’ll be more challenging. What I’ve learnt from working with hundreds of women over the years is they often compare themselves to some imaginary perfect woman who’s breezing confidently through her dilator set. Here’s the thing, she doesn’t exist!

It’s an unrealistic and soul-destroying comparison. What’s much more empowering is to compare yourself to the only reliable source – you, and your past progress

👉🏼 2. Challenge va**na half-empty thinking

So many women I work with have ‘va**na-half-empty’ thinking, which is the vaginismus-version of glass-half-empty thinking. They completely overlook some positive experiences that should be a nice milestone on their journey to comfortable pe*******on.

Got the dilator in by a centimetre? Celebrate it. Had it in for 5 minutes? Flipping brilliant! Give yourself a well-deserved pat on the back for every bit of progress you make.

👉🏼 3. Try a twist and a wiggle

There are a couple of useful little techniques you can use to help ease the va**nal dilator in further. The first is to give it a little twist as you are pushing it in.

Another technique is to 'wiggle' the dilator inside using small, circular motions. This also helps if you are a little unsure of the exact direction in which to aim the dilator – you’re more likely to find the correct route in by doing this.

(continue reading here: https://vaginismus-treatment.co.uk/va**nal-dilators-for-vaginismus)

05/12/2024

If you have vaginismus, the following may sound all too familiar…

👉🏼 You worry that you’ll be the one that can’t be helped.
👉🏼 You feel ‘broken’, frustrated and embarrassed.
👉🏼 Using a dilator is a real chore and what’s the point anyway?
👉🏼 The idea of resolving it can feel so distant and unobtainable.
👉🏼 You think that surely there is something physically wrong…

What makes me say this?

Because nearly every women I’ve ever help initially felt this way too!

Discover the surprising truths about vaginismus in my FREE Vaginismus Game-Changer Masterclass where you’ll discover new, amazing insights into vaginismus including:

⭐️ What REALLY causes it (the answer may surprise you!)
⭐️ The revealing truth of why you may have struggled to overcome it
⭐️ The biggest obstacle to overcoming vaginismus
⭐️ Dilator No-No's
⭐️ What it takes to easily resolve it… and most people don’t know this

Just go to: https://vaginismus-free.com/join-the-masterclass/ and choose a time that works for you (remember - it's free!)

Enjoy it!

11/04/2024

A must watch!! Bella Ramsey tells her amazing story of overcoming emetophobia (fear of being sick) with The Thrive Programme 😀