07/01/2024
This morning, I saw yet another short from a famous female heavily advocating HRT for menopause and this was my response -
It's a shame that someone so influential is driving a campaign of normalising medicating of women so vehemently instead of educating women and society about menopause and what we can do to listen to our bodies and their needs and have that accommodated within our work, our families and within society. Wouldn't it have been wonderful if these 'stars' were encouraging women to embrace getting older, to campaign for women to have protected paid leave to rest during this huge change, to educate people about bone health in our teens and twenties so that when we get to menopause that they are in optimum health, to recognise that bone density does diminish because as animals of this age, high bone density isn't a requirement to the same extent, to learn what exercise and foods and lifestyles promote good bone health. Wouldn't it have been wonderful for individuals like Davina to encourage women to embrace the privilege of getting older, it's not everyone who is fortunate enough to live long enough for grey hairs, wrinkles and menopause. Many women can't take HRT, it is a risk to their long term survival. Some women won't make it through menopause without it because they are living lives that do not support their mental, phycological and physical health. Medicating women because they are women is not a new things at all, it's just sad to see such an accepted drive; that we need medicating, that this stage of our lives needs medicating. We are all free to make the decisions that we need to make about our own bodies. I would like to say here, menopause has been brilliant for me, not without it's difficulties but on balance, it's been far more a positive than a negative. I started at 37 and I talked to my elders and embraced the process that was ahead of me. If there is anyone who doesn't feel that this drive resonates with them, that it doesn't feel right to them, please drop me a line because you are far from being alone. For those of you who want to join the drive, enjoy the ride and best of luck.