06/12/2025
Pregnancy and the early months after birth are meant to be transformative, but they can also feel isolating.
Many women step into this season without the support they need. A partner may be busy, family far away, friends caught up in their own lives.
Society tells new mums and mums-to-be to ‘bounce back,’ expecting women to ‘do it all,’ or ‘stay strong,’ while offering little real support, leaving many of us isolated, exhausted, and unsure if we’re doing it right.
This lack of support isn’t just emotionally tough it affects our bodies, our nervous systems, and even birth and postpartum outcomes.
Research shows that women with strong social support during pregnancy:
Are more likely to experience shorter labours
Have lower rates of postpartum depression
Report higher confidence in feeding and caring for their baby
Community helps regulate our nervous system, reduces stress hormones, and gives space to share the raw, vulnerable realities of motherhood. It can be:
Prenatal yoga or birth prep groups
Postnatal mother-and-baby classes
Local or online support circles
A trusted friend, doula, or mentor
Being held in community doesn’t just make the journey easier it literally supports healing, recovery, and adaptation.
It’s medicine because it:
✨ Eases stress and anxiety
✨ Builds confidence in your body and your baby care skills
✨ Creates belonging and reduces loneliness
✨ Provides practical guidance and emotional containment
We are not meant to do pregnancy or postpartum alone. You don’t have to figure it out in isolation. Finding, creating, or leaning into community is as essential as nutrition, sleep, and exercise.
💬 I’d love to hear from you: How has community helped you in pregnancy or postpartum? Or what kind of support do you wish you had? Share below, your experience might be the encouragement another mother needs today