The Gap Counselling

The Gap Counselling Your support system in the UK and Mallorca - Counselling & Life Coaching services. Whoever you are, and whatever you are going through, you are not alone!

We all have moments or periods in our lives, in which our circumstances can appear out of control. Sometimes we need help in getting a different perspective, and given 'tools' that will support us, in certain situations. Here at The Gap Counselling, our aim is to listen first, so that we can understand. So many of us don't feel understood, even by our closest family and friends. Gary, with over 12

years experience, offers a safe space where people can talk freely, without judgment, to explore the difficulty in their lives. Whilst Gary believes that talking alone, does not always solve the problem; it can help to gain a new perspective and mindset. If you would like to speak with Gary to discuss your situation; please contact us.


“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand. Most people listen with the intent to reply.” – Stephen Covey

23/07/2025

Four actions every leader can take:
✔️ Talk about mental health
✔️ Offer access to trained professionals
✔️ Train managers
✔️ Build an open culture

We help you put these into practice with flexible training and coaching.



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That’s a wrap for our Level 4 Counsellor Training group sessions this summer!On Friday, we closed out the spring/summer ...
21/07/2025

That’s a wrap for our Level 4 Counsellor Training group sessions this summer!

On Friday, we closed out the spring/summer training with our final face-to-face group session in Mallorca, joined by our brilliant online trainees from the UK, who dialled in via Zoom. The team have their last 1-2-1 with Gary this week before a well-earned break.

From first nerves to powerful breakthroughs, this group has shown what happens when courage meets consistency.

A big thank you to Maroussia, one of our counsellors, who joined Gary to co-facilitate this final session. Your presence brought calm, clarity and insight, exactly what the group needed.

To our trainees: thank you for showing up so fully.
Enjoy your well-earned summer break!

📚 Interested in training with us in autumn? Explore our Level 3, 4 and Practical-Only options on our website: www.thegapcounselling.com

19/07/2025
Long summer breaks can feel carefree, until routine disappears. Studies show girls and boys from less-affluent backgroun...
19/07/2025

Long summer breaks can feel carefree, until routine disappears. Studies show girls and boys from less-affluent backgrounds are more likely to experience loneliness, hunger, and anxiety over the holidays: https://zurl.co/c5chr

As a parent or caregiver, little actions can help: arranging playdates, trying to maintain even loose routines around meals and sleep, and scheduling outdoor time.

💬 Need support helping your temperament child through the break? We’re here to help and we have a team of counsellors available.

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Let’s be honest, starting therapy isn’t easy.You’re choosing to open up the parts of yourself you’ve hidden, buried, or ...
17/07/2025

Let’s be honest, starting therapy isn’t easy.

You’re choosing to open up the parts of yourself you’ve hidden, buried, or never been allowed to express.
You’re trusting someone you’ve never met with your pain, your past, your truth.
That takes courage. Real courage.

Not everyone talks about this part, but we will.

At The Gap Counselling, we don’t take your trust lightly.
We meet your fear with care.
We meet your silence with patience.
We meet your story with respect.

And we walk with you, at your pace.

If you’re ready, or just curious, we’re here to talk.

Moving in together is exciting — but it can also bring unexpected tension.From different routines to unspoken expectatio...
17/07/2025

Moving in together is exciting — but it can also bring unexpected tension.
From different routines to unspoken expectations, even the happiest couples can feel the pressure.

The Great Expectations Programme is a 45-day therapist-designed system to help you create harmony at home — whether you do it solo or as a couple.

✔️ 6 private sessions
✔️ Weekly therapist check-ins
✔️ Tools for real-life challenges

You deserve a relationship that feels safe, calm and connected — and it starts with small shifts.

📲 Tap the link in our bio to book your free consultation.

“They understood me very well and I felt very safe there.”When you feel truly seen and supported, healing becomes possib...
16/07/2025

“They understood me very well and I felt very safe there.”

When you feel truly seen and supported, healing becomes possible.

This client shared how counselling helped them let go of what was weighing them down — and gave them tools to manage stress with more ease.

You don’t have to carry it all alone. We’re here when you’re ready. ✨

📩 Link in bio to book a consultation call or learn more.

14/07/2025

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“If I could, I would continue forever, there’s so much to learn about ourselves.”Therapy isn’t just for the hard times. ...
12/07/2025

“If I could, I would continue forever, there’s so much to learn about ourselves.”

Therapy isn’t just for the hard times. It’s for the curiosity, the growth, the discovery of who we are as individuals and partners.

This beautiful review captures the value of couples therapy as a tool not just for fixing problems, but for deepening connection and emotional awareness.

Are you ready to invest in your relationship?
Book a consultation today: https://zurl.co/qWB3H

As school breaks settle in, many parents feel overwhelmed trying to juggle work and childcare. A recent article highligh...
11/07/2025

As school breaks settle in, many parents feel overwhelmed trying to juggle work and childcare. A recent article highlights that 23% of UK parents lack sufficient leave, and many are resorting to nanny apps, flexi-working, or support from friends and family
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💡 If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Feeling stretched doesn’t mean you’re failing, it means you need support and practical strategies.

PS. Therapy can also help you manage stress and rebuild emotional resilience.

📩 Find out how on our website.

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“Sarah has been a great support through a very difficult period…”When you find the right therapist, it’s not just about ...
10/07/2025

“Sarah has been a great support through a very difficult period…”

When you find the right therapist, it’s not just about being heard; it’s about being understood, supported, and gently guided to the root of what’s really going on.

This kind review reminds us of the power of compassionate, skilled therapy to bring clarity and healing.

If you’re ready to take that first step, our team is here.
Link in bio to find your counsellor.

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Banstead

Opening Hours

Monday 9am - 6pm
Tuesday 9am - 6pm
Wednesday 9am - 6pm
Thursday 9am - 6pm
Friday 9am - 6pm

Telephone

+447537142426

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The name 'The Gap', is the 'space' between the day we are born, and the day we leave this earth. This Gap represents our life on earth. During our life, the ultimate reason for our 'gap', is to know who we really are (identity); and to discover the reason why we are here (purpose). Life is precious. Life is a gift! It is my belief that whatever we achieve in life, our gap will be unfulfilled unless we are able to answer arguably the two most important questions in life: 1 - Who am I? 2 - What is my purpose? Our Vision The vision of 'The Gap Enterprises', is for every human being worldwide, to discover their real purpose in life:

'Knowing who you are', and 'Knowing why you are here'...and not being afraid to 'live it'! 'DARING to be YOU!' Our Passion Our passion is YOU! Why? Because there is only ONE you! Our mission is to empower YOU, by helping you discover your real purpose in life.

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If you would appreciate guidance in discovering the purpose within you, or are in need of support regarding how to make your passion a reality, then... Contact us today, to discuss how we can work together.