14/05/2026
You can understand something logically… and still feel stuck in the same emotional patterns.
This client originally came to support the grief of losing a parent.
But over 12 weeks, we gently uncovered so much more underneath the surface.
Patterns around emotional eating, people pleasing, social anxiety, fear of judgement and struggling to communicate feelings honestly.
Like many people, she had become instinctively good at caring for others whilst quietly disconnecting from her own needs.
Through compassionate inquiry, parts work and somatic reprocessing, we explored not just the thoughts behind those patterns, but the nervous system responses underneath them too.
We don’t just think our way into overwhelm.
We adapt to stress emotionally, physically and relationally over time.
One of the reasons I work in this integrative way is because many people arrive having already tried traditional talking therapy, yet still feel emotionally stuck, reactive, anxious or disconnected underneath.
It’s not because they’re failing.
It’s because the body also needs support, safety and understanding, not just the mind. And that's how my work differs.
In her own words, this client shared that the process helped her:
“understand myself better”,
“improve my self esteem”,
and “communicate more openly and honestly.”
Shared with kind permission from my client, who brought me these beautiful flowers, a heartfelt card and treats for us all, including, Clover at the end of our final session. (How lush!)
Growth does not happen through shame.
It happens through awareness, compassion and learning how to support ourselves differently.
Also helps too 😘
Ruth & Clover
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