Stand Tall - Strength and Wellbeing

30/04/2026

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Does anyone have a van, know someone who has or can help? Have a buddy who might need some help to move in coming weeks. Not urgent.

Give me a message privately if you can help.

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26/04/2026

We’re being bombarded.

Mental health ads, apps, hacks. Solutions everywhere.

It feels like we’ve overcomplicated something that, for most people, most of the time, is actually quite simple.

That’s not to dismiss real struggle. Some people do need support, therapy, services. That matters.

But for many of us, it’s the basics that slip.

Not another app.
Not another subscription.
Not another expert telling you what you’re missing.

Just the fundamentals, done well:

Meaningful occupation
Move your body
Eat decent food
Stay connected
Sleep properly

That’s the work.

Be wary of anything that pulls you away from that, especially if it’s trying to sell you something.

If you need help, get help. But it should bring you back to these, not take you further away.

18/03/2026

Here’s a bit about what we do at Stand Tall.

We run two free sessions each week for men who want to look after their head and body.

Monday nights – relaxed meet-ups. No pressure, no expectation to talk. Just a space to learn about things like stress, sleep, motivation and more.
Wednesday nights – gym sessions. Learn new movements, get a sweat on, and train alongside a solid group of lads.

It’s simple: learn, move, connect.

If you know someone who might benefit—or if that someone is you—just get in touch or hit the link in bio.

No pressure. Just turn up.

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08/11/2025

We need to reframe how we talk about men’s mental health.

For years, “masculine norms” have been blamed as barriers to help-seeking. But that framing often implies men are the problem — that they’re broken, emotionally unintelligent, or need fixing.

The truth is: men value strength, independence, reliability, and purpose. So instead of saying “you’re ill and need help,” we should be saying:

Let’s get you back on track.
Let’s help you feel confident and strong again.
Let’s help you reconnect with your sense of purpose.

This isn’t about asking men to abandon their masculinity — it’s about helping them reclaim their strength and agency. When we do that, men are far more likely to engage, open up, and move forward.

Because in many ways, what we’ve done to men is the equivalent of telling women: “zip your mouth and don’t tell people about your problems.” It’s a cultural message that shuts people down.

Reference: Üzümçeker, E. (2025). Traditional Masculinity and Men’s Psychological Help-Seeking: A Meta-Analysis. International Journal of Psychology. PubMed ID: 40038563

08/11/2025

28/10/2025

22/10/2025

Men don’t need fixing — they need understanding.
Too often, services respond to men’s distress with labels and medication, when what they really need is connection, context, and practical support.

In my latest piece originally for the Oxford Centre for Male Psychology newsletter, I explore how we can start working with men’s strengths instead of against their perceived weaknesses — drawing on research, experience, and a bit of common sense.

Let’s start listening before labelling.

Check out latest blog via standtallwales.co.uk/blog (link in bio) or subscribe to my free substack; open.substack.com/pub/paulregan

21/10/2025

14/10/2025

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Every Monday at the Health Hwb 🧡

I don’t know if you know, but every Monday evening from 6pm–8pm, Stand Tall Wales run their men’s group right here in our Community Room at the Health Hwb Barry.

In today’s world, so many of our sons, brothers, and fathers are facing silent battles with their mental health and this incredible not-for-profit organisation is doing something about it.

Stand Tall Wales is dedicated to supporting men across Barry and the Vale of Glamorgan, helping them connect, build resilience, and find a genuine sense of belonging. Their sessions are relaxed, welcoming, and completely free a safe space to talk, listen, and grow together. 💬

If you or someone you know could benefit from being part of this group, come along next Monday. You’ll be made to feel right at home.

18/09/2025

Not sure if you know this already… but every Monday night at the Hwb, our community room is home to a men’s mental health meeting run by Stand Tall - Strength and Wellbeing 👊

They’re a great bunch of lads, creating a space where men can talk, listen, and support each other.

No pressure, no judgement, just real conversations that matter.

If you (or someone you know) could do with that, come along on a Monday evening.

Trust us, these boys make a difference.

📲 For more info, give Paul a shout on 07816 273671

13/08/2025

We are absolutely over the moon to share that we’ve agreed to offer Stand Tall - Strength and Wellbeing the use of our Community Room at the Health Hwb every Monday night from 6:30 pm, moving forward. 🧡

Taking care of mental health especially men’s mental health is a massive part of my mission. I know firsthand what it feels like, and I’m going through my own journey right now.

To be able to provide a safe, welcoming space for Stand Tall and everyone who attends their meetings makes everything we are doing worthwhile.

We will support this cause no matter what, because this is what we stand for.

Proud to stand shoulder to shoulder with Stand Tall as they continue doing an incredible job supporting people across the Vale of Glamorgan. 👏 🧡