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12/05/2025

A Simple Spiritual Practice to Silence Automatic Thoughts
1. Create Sacred Space (1–2 minutes)

Sit quietly. Light a candle, incense, or play soft, sacred music if you like.
Say an intention or prayer like:
“I welcome stillness. I ask for clarity. I release what no longer serves my soul.”
2. Ground and Center Yourself (1 minute)

Visualize roots growing from your feet into the earth.
Take slow, deep breaths. Inhale through the nose for 4 counts, exhale through the mouth for 6 counts.
Feel your body. Come fully into the now.
3. Observe Without Engaging (5–10 minutes)

As thoughts come, do not follow them. Just watch.
Silently say: “That is not me. I release you.” or simply label the thought: “thinking.”
Let it pass like a cloud. Don’t judge it, don’t analyze it.
Return to your breath or a sacred word (e.g., peace, God, love, Om).
4. Use a Mantra or Sacred Word (Ongoing or During Meditation)

Repeating a word silently gives the mind something pure to focus on.
Try: “I am still”, “Be still and know”, “So hum” (I am that), or “Jesus”, “Shalom”, etc.
Let it become the background sound in your mind.
5. Practice “Thought Surrender” Throughout the Day

When you catch yourself lost in thoughts, pause and breathe.
Say inwardly: “I surrender this thought.”
Bring awareness back to the present moment—what you’re doing, seeing, or feeling physically.
🌌 Bonus: Nightly Clearing Ritual
Before sleep, place a hand on your heart and say:
“I release all mental noise. I invite divine peace into my mind.”
Imagine light washing over your brain, quieting all thought.

Over Time
With regular practice, automatic thoughts lose their grip. You begin to live from presence, not reaction. Silence becomes more natural. The goal isn’t to “fight” thoughts, but to become so present that they dissolve on their own.

Would you like a guided meditation script or audio recommendation for this practice?

For those who struggle with anger. It’s good to remember that anger comes forward as a boundary.  It’s our way to say th...
28/09/2023

For those who struggle with anger. It’s good to remember that anger comes forward as a boundary. It’s our way to say this is not ok. As they say, anger is sad’s bodyguard, trying to keep you safe. It is not a negative emotion it is a protective emotion, doing it’s job, showing us what needs to change. Have compassion for yourself. Let shame that you and others shower over you, when you show anger go. You are a beautiful person, worthy, valued and loved. Please remind yourself of this.

While anger can feel powerful in our bodies, many of us use angry behavior to avoid dealing with things that make us uncomfortable. Compassion gives us a way...

Truth
04/09/2023

Truth

“Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities.”

― Voltaire

[ Artist • Lenka Šimečková ]

04/09/2023

“To be free is to be capable of thinking one’s own thoughts, not the thoughts merely of the body, or of society, but thoughts generated by one’s deepest most original, most essential and spiritual self, one’s individuality.”

― Rudolf Steiner

[ Art • “Oráculo” by Babs Webb ]

04/09/2023

“I hope you understand. That not everyone is replaceable. In your life, you will meet some who will touch your soul, leave a mark on it. And no matter how much time passes, you’ll always remember them. The first time you met. The last time you saw each other. And in-between. Some people come into your life to teach you this valuable lesson. How some people can't be replaced. How some will always play a significant role in your life.”

— r.m. drake

[ Art • “Feel” by Jason Limon ]

03/09/2023

I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me. She smiled and said to me..
"I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters.
I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me...
I stopped fighting with my in laws...
I stopped fighting for attention...
I stopped fighting to meet peoples expectation of me...
I stopped fighting for my rights with inconsiderate people..
I stopped fighting to please everyone...
I stopped fighting to prove they were wrong about me....
I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight...
And I started fighting for
my vision,
my dreams,
my ideas and
my destiny.
The day I gave up on small fights is the day I started becoming successful & so much more content."
Some fights are not worth your time..... Choose what you fight for wisely.
-Rita Daniels- I found this message attributed to Rita Daniels, but I can't be sure of it. Some say that it is by an unknown author. If you know who wrote this message, please let me know.

Photo: Art By © Victor Bauer in the DailyPaintworks.com Fine Art Gallery

Archaeology for the Woman's Soul

Heaven 😍😍
01/08/2023

Heaven 😍😍

✨ This is a fantasy ✨

08/01/2023

This year is going to be a year as a collective for taking personal responsibility. That means accountability for self. A time when we own our own feelings, which until now, society has brought about guilt and judgment, on how we make other people feel. This has allowed us to lay blame at the door of others. Rather than taking responsibility for our own feelings.

For example, saying THEY MADE ME FEEL. Which is of a victim mindset, that we all rush to become a rescuer to , and persecutor toward the other, deemed as bad, because they made that person feel a certain way.

The fact is we are the only ones responsible for how we feel. No one can make us feel anything. We chose to feel those feelings, then blame another for them. We’ve all done this. But the plain facts are, that another’s behaviours or what they say are nothing to do with us. They are not personal to us, but are personal to the other person, just as our own behaviours, feelings and actions are our own issues to work through.

We will be given the opportunity this year, to look inwardly, self reflect, and work on our shadow self. It is vital for us to do this, so we can discard what we no longer need. It is time for us to look at the configurations of self and accept them as part of who we are, and not be ashamed by it, instead we love it, and acknowledge why it is there.

I am talking of true self acceptance. Once you get to this place, nothing or no one can bother you. It is only because you don’t accept yourself that others behaviours are a problem to you.

So let us see our own feelings, and the triggers, that we get from others, as a learning opportunity. Why do we feel what we are feeling? where is that coming from? why did that trigger me? What are my beliefs around this situation or this person? Is that actually true, do I have evidence for that? Is this my issue actually? What is it in me that felt wounded by this?

When we start to question ourselves, we will see that every person we encounter is actually a teacher. Giving us an opportunity to grow. Good luck on this self healing journey, my friends. Personal responsibility, is a tough one to work through, but it is also, the most rewarding. Remember there is nothing to feel shame for. It’s all just learning. Blessings and love to you all. ✨🙏🏼✨

04/11/2022

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