11/11/2025
🌟Anxiety in Pregnancy🌟
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Its normal to feel worried and anxious when pregnant – especially if this is your first baby. You're growing a life inside of you and that can be a very daunting responsibility.
It's natural to fret about what you eat, drink, think, feel, and do. It's also perfectly normal to worry about whether your baby is healthy, how this new person will change your life and relationships, and whether you're truly up to the task of parenthood.
But if your anxiety is becoming all-consuming and regularly interferes with your day-to-day functioning, it's time to find a better way to deal with it.
To start, share your fears with your partner — even if they're about him or her. Chances are they also worried and have concerns of their own. Communicating openly about your anxiety can help you both feel better.
Turn to friends or family members for support, too. Other mums-to-be are another source of support, as they're probably experiencing the same worries you are.
If you're extremely anxious or have a specific reason to be concerned about your baby's health, share your concerns with your GP or Midwife.
If anxiety still plagues you after you've aired your worries and checked in on your baby's well-being, professional counselling can help you get to the bottom of your troubles (The GP can refer you or check out local / online support service).
Here are a few ideas to manage your stress and reduce anxiety at work and at home:
~~ Practice saying "no." Now's as good a time as any to get rid of the notion that you can do it all. You can't, so learn to let your superwoman ideals go.
~~ Make slowing down a priority, and get used to the idea of asking your friends and loved ones for help.
~~ Cut back on chores and have some ‘you’ time - use that time to put your feet up, nap, or read a book. Spending a day or even an afternoon resting at home will help you get through a tough week.
~~ Try deep-breathing exercises, yoga, or stretching.
~~ Get regular exercise such as swimming or walking.
~~ Do your best to eat a healthy, well-balanced diet so you have the physical and emotional energy you need.
~~ Go to bed early. Your body is working overtime to nourish your growing baby and needs all the sleep it can get.
~~ Limit "information overload." Reading about pregnancy and listening to your friends' pregnancy stories are fine but don't delve into all the scary things that might (but probably won't) happen during your pregnancy. Focus instead on how you're feeling and what's happening to you now.
~~ Join (or create!) a support group. If you're coping with a difficult situation, spending time with others in the same boat can ease your burden.
Please check out some these links for more ideas and advice:
https://www.tommys.org/pregnancy-information/im-pregnant/mental-wellbeing/anxiety-and-panic-attacks-pregnancy
https://www.nhs.uk/pregnancy/keeping-well/mental-health/
https://parents1st.org.uk/parents-1st-essex
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/postnatal-depression-and-perinatal-mental-health/perinatal-anxiety/
https://sidebyside.mind.org.uk/