26/04/2026
A little weekend reflection on the reality of being a childminder 💭
Most of you see the brilliant and fun parts of my job. The crafts, the smiles, the laughter, and the special trips Claire and I take the mindees on such as Legoland, theatre and zoos. As we cannot have children of our own, taking the mindees on these big adventures gives us the absolute best opportunity to bond and make amazing memories. Those special days out fill our hearts and I would not trade them for anything in the world.
But I wanted to be totally transparent today and admit something. I am running on empty right now.
Being a childminder, having a toddler group and a Squirrel Scouts volunteer is the most rewarding life I could ask for, but the invisible load is incredibly heavy. Recently we welcomed a beautiful 6 month old mindee into our setting. It is absolutely fantastic and I am soaking up every single milestone, but as anyone who has cared for a baby knows, it takes a massive amount of time, care, and hands on energy!
Right now, on top of working 4 to 5 days a week, my plate looks like this:
The Daily Grind:
Getting the house ready every single day takes so much energy before the children even arrive. I have to completely reset all the toys, prepare the activities, and make sure the space is completely safe and welcoming for the little ones. Plus the pickups and drop offs that mean my day starts early or finishes later.
The Endless Paperwork:
Most people do not see the administrative side of early years care and community work, but it truly never stops. I have policies, risk assessments and more for childminding, and active planning for the toddler group, plus all the administrative duties and planning required to run the Squirrel Scouts safely. It takes up hours and hours of my evenings and weekends just to stay on top of the legal requirements.
The Community Volunteering:
I spend my Sunday nights physically setting up the hall so our Monday morning toddler group is completely ready to go the second the parents arrive. Then there is planning and running the Squirrels on a Wednesday night, plus always being willing to step in and support other Scout groups in the local area when they desperately need extra adults to run safely.
The Fight for Our Sector:
The early years sector is facing some really exhausting changes right now, and I am actively advocating for childminders behind the scenes. We are currently fighting against the massive loss of the 10% percent wear and tear allowance, which hits us incredibly hard financially. We are also actively confronting the DFE and government against better sleep policies and fairer conditions for everyone in the early years profession because our mindees deserve the absolute best care.
The Studying and Training:
I am currently putting in the hours to work toward my AET award. Earning this qualification is absolutely vital to me because it means I will eventually be able to provide free or heavily discounted First Aid and Safeguarding training to my fellow childminders. So many early years educators are feeling the financial squeeze right now, and I want to do absolutely whatever I can to support our amazing childcare community.
I want to be absolutely clear. I do not want anything to change. I love my job. I love children in general. I love the chaos, the community, and the absolute joy these kids bring to my life every single day.
I also know I do not do this alone. I am so incredibly grateful for my wonderful wife Claire, who helps me shoulder this massive load and makes those special days out possible. I also have to give a massive shoutout to my amazing leaders at Squirrels. I literally could not do Wednesday nights without you all.
I am sharing this because I know so many other educators, childminders, and parents are probably feeling the exact same burnout. I just realized lately that between all these wonderful things, I have zero time left for myself to just breathe.
So if I seem a bit tired at the door lately or take a little longer to reply to a message, please bear with me! I am just doing my absolute best to keep all these brilliant plates spinning. Sending love to you all, and thank you for trusting us with your little ones. ✨