09/02/2025
Something for Parent's to share with their young people -
Understanding Your Amazing Adolescent Brain 🧠
What’s Happening in Your Brain?
Your brain is developing in incredible ways during adolescence (roughly ages 10–25). It’s growing, changing, and becoming more efficient to help you make decisions, manage emotions, and plan for the future. This process is exciting and sometimes challenging, but understanding how your brain works can help you navigate it with confidence!
Key Changes in the Adolescent Brain
🧠 The Prefrontal Cortex (The Thinking & Planning Centre) – This part of your brain, responsible for decision-making, problem-solving, and self-control, is still developing. That’s why you might sometimes act on impulse or find it tricky to make long-term plans.
⚡ The Limbic System (The Emotion & Reward Centre) – This area develops earlier and is responsible for emotions, motivation, and seeking rewards. It’s why you might experience strong emotions and feel drawn to excitement and new experiences.
🔗 Neural Connections – Your brain is strengthening important connections through a process called synaptic pruning. This means the connections you use the most get stronger, and the ones you don’t use fade away—like trimming a tree to help it grow better!
How This Connects to Solution Focused Thinking
Solution focused thinking helps you use your brain’s strengths while navigating challenges.
Here’s how:
🌟 Focus on What’s Working – Your brain is wired to learn from experiences. By paying attention to what’s going well and what helps you succeed, you reinforce positive neural pathways.
🔄 Small Steps Create Big Change – Since your brain is still developing, every time you practice problem-solving, self-control, and resilience, you strengthen those skills. Even small improvements can make a huge difference over time!
📈 Scaling Helps You See Progress – Your brain responds well to clear, measurable progress. Solution-focused questions like “On a scale of 0 to 10, where are you now?” and “What makes you that number and not lower?”, help you recognise growth and keep moving forward.
🎯 Future-Focused Thinking – The adolescent brain loves imagining possibilities. Solution focused thinking encourages you to picture your best hopes and build on what’s already helping you get there.
Your Superpower: Your Growing Brain! 🧠
Even though your brain is still developing, that’s actually a superpower! It means you have an amazing ability to adapt, learn, and create your future. By using solution focused thinking, you can shape your brain’s development in a way that helps you feel more confident, hopeful, and in control of your journey.
What’s one small step you can take today to move closer to your best hopes?