23/07/2025
People intentionally wanting to make people feel invisible or unreal - unlived?
One thing that deeply saddens me is the growing social response, it could even be called an explosion towards people that people think are wounded. People in a socially irresponsible culture like to shame, belittle, and act all enmeshed while getting temporary elevated by calling people names like “narcissist”
It’s so “narcissistic” to ghost people - can people not see this enmeshed behaviour is mentally abusive? They do surely… The problem often being the social media experts encouraging this kind of hatred and intentional antagonism.
The power of the narcism converts people to become ‘The Narcissist” - clearly, and also entitled to abuse - just like what they are railing against - more of the same - wow! 😮
Narcissism isn’t a person it’s a ‘social construct’ and it’s the social construct that should be ignored and actively pushed away not the person that the social construct has attached - people can let go of that cultured construct and no longer be controlled by it - teach this, rather than teaching people to abuse people.
Can you see this could dispel people from the sufferings of intoxication?
In IFS we process attached phenomena, social legacies, family legacies and other non human phenomena that gets hold of people in this way - IFS assists clearing away these problem binds and frees up the deeper nature to feel more freely, openly and with real wholesome compassion that feels peaceful and calm.
