29/01/2026
I really enjoy talking to my clients and recently myself and a client were talking about death and impermanence and the pain of attachment and he told me about Lamrim, which he followed up by giving me this book to investigate further, which I very much look forward to when I get moments away from my counselling training course work and work ☺️🙏🏻!
Lamrim is a Tibetan Buddhist system that presents the Buddha’s teachings as a 21 step path for transforming the mind and moving away from fear and attachment driven living to wisdom, compassion, and liberation.
Step 1 is contemplating on the fact that our current human life is precious and rare.
Step 2 was the step we talked about as it tackles death and attachment. This step asks us to meditate on death to help us gradually replace this deceptive thought that we are “not really going to die” with the more truthful awareness: “I may die today.” This meditation on our death and impermanence is designed to overcome the laziness of attachment, which is our strong desire for worldly pleasures that causes us attachment, fear and empty lives and distracts us from liberating ourselves from suffering this in this life and our next life. We need to contemplate and meditate on our death again and again saying “I may die today” and “I am going to die”until we feel a deep realisation of death and then we can release ourselves from the “laziness of attachment”.
I would recommend doing this meditation 5 to 7 days a week for 10-20 minutes per time or whatever you can,l. Combine it with the Buddhist Metta meditation that Metta Yoga and Massage was inspired by and in a nutshell you meditate on “May I be happy, may those I love, those I am neutral toward, those I struggle with, and all beings be happy, safe, and at ease.”
We really have all we need without all that outside noise. Have a blessed day!