01/12/2024
New Moon in Sagittarius exact at 06:21 (NI Time) on Sunday 1st December
This can be a lunar cycle of finding or re-finding your power and authoritative voice and energy. It can be a time to take control of your life back. Instead of waiting around for others to create the experiences and opportunities for you, this can be a cycle of creating it yourself and taking charge. At the core of this is you being honest with yourself about what you really want for yourself and being honest about whether it is actually possible. Reach higher, push your limiting views and restrictive beliefs, but be real with yourself about can be achieved. Working within healthy boundaries can help you achieve more right now. This is about you listening to yourself, listening to your body, listening to your heart and mind, your needs and desires, because when you do and you truly listen, you understand the value and impact of being heard and understood. This will encourage you to listen to others honestly and deeply and create connections that will inspire, encourage and support.
Be careful of bullying behaviour and attitudes. Taking charge is not about controlling others or dominating in relationships, it is not about competitiveness or forcing others to do what you want. It is about you being the key decision maker when it comes to where you are directing yourself, your energy and your focus. When it comes to relationships and connections with others, it is about actively participating in collaborative decision making. It is about making sure that everyone has their say, including yourself. It is about making sure everyone is heard and all perspectives are listened to. You may find yourself in situations where you have to push against authoritative voices, or people, who are silencing you or others. You may find that you have to challenge restrictive boundaries in communication to connect more openly and freely with others.
This can be a lunar cycle in which you are dealing with old issues and stories from the past, but in new ways. Push yourself to take new perspectives on these old stories, especially the ones you keep replaying over and over again. Work on releasing resentment, negative judgements (of self and others) and overly selfish attitudes. Try to let go of blaming others and of accusing others of overly selfish behaviour. Challenge yourself to open up and see different sides of these stories. As painful, and even as scary, as this might be for you to move out of your own experience, try to see the other side/s of the story. Moving out of your own experience or side of the story can feel like you are giving your power away. But really the repetition of this story is disempowering you. It is not keeping you safe, it is keeping you stuck. This is not necessarily about forgiving the other person or people involved, sometimes that just is not possible, but it is certainly about forgiving yourself and freeing yourself from self-criticism, self-judgement or blame.
Unlocking these old repeating stories, experiences and patterns from the past will free up your energy. It will lighten your experience and help you to expand and grow right now. It can increase your creativity, raise your vitality, energy levels and reconnect you back to yourself. You will feel better to let these stories go. But that is where the work is here, in how to let go so that you are truly, honestly moving on from them.
This is a lunar cycle of reassessing and re-evaluating how and where you implement boundaries and where you don’t. It is about reviewing whether the inner authoritative voice is actually supporting you or creating further restrictive experiences in your life. It is now time to reshape the inner self talk so that you are communicating from an encouraging, progressive, expansive voice. Let go off that inner critic and inner judge that holds you back and keeps you stuck in old repeating patterns. Now is the time to work on expanding your experiences both inner and outer.
This is a great time to think about what you want to achieve and to potentially create something new, something different. It can be a time of aligning with your goals from a new, more empowering energy. This is about finding ways to create the goals, and life, that you really want. It can be a time of learning new skills or opening up to new ways or new ideas that help you to achieve more. But if you stay stuck in the old ways, the old mindset, the old stories you have always been in, you limit your potential to what you have already achieved.
Good luck and Big Big Love to All!