11/05/2026
✨ Coping with labour vs surrendering to it ✨
We often arrive into birth thinking we need to cope with it or just get through it. But labour isn’t something that responds well to coping in the traditional sense.
It’s a physiological process (if it starts spontaneously) and a deeply instinctive one.
Coping is often what we reach for when we want control or certainty.
However in labour, too much “coping energy” can create tension, so the body is trying to open, while the mind is staying braced and alert.
Surrendering is different. By surrendering or even just staying in the moment, both will allow you to soften, not bracing or anticipating every contraction.
It’s letting the body take the lead and in general labour flows best when you are:
✨ not being watched
✨ not being rushed
✨ not being interrupted
✨ not being asked to perform
It will flow when you are held, supported and left to move inward.
Learn how to practice surrender or be in your body during labour, come and join us for the next term of Nurtured Birthing Classes or Hypnobirthing.